Platonic Key Holding

Ah, I heard sych a story, similar, before somewhere, a couple of times. Reddit, maybe. I would not jump to the betterment global conclusion, but on the personal level a rare but cute, sunny scenario. Not for most, clearly, a good friendship, a deep one, seems indeed a big condition to get it working, imho.

 

Whatever works I guess!

 

I love this concept. Certainly a great option if the situation is right with really supportive and close friends.

 

The woman might have thought the relationship was strictly platonic but the guy clearly wanted more otherwise he'd have solved the issue himself rather than letting her founder until she went to the internet to find help.

 

You did a fantastic job conveying the essence of this relationship. You've actually described one of my ideal scenarios. The woman is simply being gracious, helping......for my own good. No sex offered, nor possible. The woman simply knows that eliminating a male's masturbation problem is good for humankind in general--that's perhaps her motivation.

And the more clinical or matter of fact the supervised cleaning was the better. I also love that she arbitrarily chooses when--or if--a release is appropriate.

Sign me up!

 

I’ve heard of platonic friends being kh’s before and it seems to work as far as I know. Although the woman may not get or want anything sexual out of it I would imagine the man does even if agreeing to keeping it platonic. While a chastity device certainly helps curb masturbating, as we all know it also increases sexual desire. Whether or not that desire is turned towards his KH or vented elsewhere I would imagine there is always that element of desire.

 

Actually, in Plato’s Timaeus, he describes the idealized non-sexual friendship between a man and a woman as “γεμίζει το πέος του σε ένα κλουβί,” which translates to modern English as “she stuffs his engorged dick in a cage.” So it only makes sense.

 

I could see the arrangement, but part of wearing a cage for me is the thrill of handing your keys over to someone as part of submitting to them. If the friend required you to do some non-sexual service, like housecleaning, then it would be more appealing to me.

 

This is hilarious.....Thank you for the broad smile today.

Now I gotta look up the greek.....

 

YEP! That's what Plato said alright......Funny stuff.

 

I agree!

 

As said before, it's likely that it is only non-sexual for the woman. I see how a scenario like this could be great for men, but it sounds like a lot of emotional and intellectual work for women. If a woman is willing to help a man with his self-work, that is her choice, certainly, however this situation seems a lot to ask of a friend. I hope he understands the commitment she is making.

 

To spice things up...
After a while he feels like he's cured of his wanking habit and wants to end the agreement.
She however, and with cold calculating female logic determines that he has come too far and she can't risk allowing him to sink back into his old depravity.
She keeps him locked.
Potential girlfriends come and go and he must watch the sexual opportunities pass him by because his good friend won't give up the key.
His friend eventually gets a boyfriend, then gets married, but never gives up the key.
Year after year he implores her to release him and sometimes she looks like she is considering it.
However in the end, and with a reflective look, she always says no, that he can always continue to improve himself for the benefit of all women.

Woah, talk about getting more then was bargained for!

 

I think the part "for the benefit of all women" is significant. I genuinely feel that male chastity applied liberally across society WOULD be a benefit to womankind.

 

Part of curing a masturbation addiction would be learning how to do it in a moderate healthy way instead of a wild swing from all the time to none of the time. That will lead to a relapse. It could work if they have open communication about releasing chastity.

 

If I asked her, I know a good woman friend of mine who would probably say yes to holding my key. We have been friends for many years, but always in a platonic way. I did have a conversation with her once about taking the relationship further, but she explained that she regarded me more as a brother than anything, so it was not possible. We have remained friends since and we travelled together in years past. One was a scuba trip to the Caribbean and when I went to the bathroom in the hotel room she told me not to be silly and we could change in front of each other. So we have seen each other naked. During that trip I gave her a massage with nothing on, but we never had sex. We have talked about some kinky things that people are interested in so I am quite sure if I told her about chastity cages and asked if she would hold my key that she would happily accept. I imagine she would be fascinated to learn more about them.

 

For sure, I just like to take things to the cruel end of the spectrum...no pussy, no girl friend, nothing. A good friendship though

 

Well the girlfriend could be given the keys and once they are married and headed up the gangway of the cruise ship to head off on their honeymoon straight from the wedding that morning The new bride could toss them over the side saying now that I have you I no longer need these.

 

Bon voyage!

 

I like the idea of a platonic keyholder handing the key over to a new girlfriend, after having a nice long chat together about the benefits of male chastity.

 

Had that t-shirt a long time ago, used it as a duster and then as with all old dusters it became an oil -rag and then landfill ...also a long time ago.

It was ok and at the time fulfilled a need ... on refelction perhaps for us both.