Piercing for chasity

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    Posting here because she brought it up so seemed fitting. I've had a PA and fernum piercing long gone now way before chasity was even a thought. So I'm not totally ignorant on subject. Can someone explain to me though how a piercing and cage works? Do I have to remove piercing to remove cage etc. Explain it like I'm 6 please lol.
     
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    Incorporating a chastity cage with a piercing makes it impossible to pull out the back or remove, the added security is a turn on for some people.

    Have a look at some sites that make them:
    Evotion Wearables
    Male Chastity Now
    Bawpro
    Steelworxx
     
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    And if I may ask, what’s your view on the merits of frenum vs PA piercings?
     
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    I did them because I was dating a body piercer who let me use them after they healed. So not much merit involved lol. I remember the PA being bloodier and hurting more is about all.
     
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    It depends, but most often the cage will have its own integral hook (fastener), rather than capturing existing body jewelry.

    https://www.bawrpro.com/products/ba-28?VariantsId=11787
    https://www.bawrpro.com/products/ba-33?VariantsId=11747

    In essense the cage is the jewelry, and removing the cage leaves an unoccupied piercing.
     
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    On my BAWR cage there is an additional bit that goes through the hole the piercing goes through.

    It causes no discomfort.
     
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    I wouldn’t explain how a PA chastity cage works to a six year old. It’d feel inappropriate.
     
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    As others said…adds security if you’re using either and integrated piercing (one specifically designed with the cage to lock or secure in place), or a purpose built lock (BAWR has some) so you cannot pull out or otherwise remove the cage (without damage to yourself).

    As far as type of piercing, personally I feel the PA is a more durable piercing once stretched and healed, for securement. Some of it depends on the cage style you want. As an example I’m in a MCN GA2 and it doesn’t have a base ring and is secured with the 2ga “pin” that holds me in the device and is securely affixed to my cock via the security screw. Ball trap devices it simply holds you in the cage (same securement manner as above) and thus you cannot remove.
     
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    Has zero issue with blatant oedipus fantasy but a turn of phrase is an issue lol. Way to pick those battles.
     
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    a) Oedipal kink is top of my hot list
    b) I was jesting about the “6 year old” thing. I thought that’d be obvious
     
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    What is your issue with “Mom dom”? I can see it wouldn’t be everyone’s cup of tea but chacun à son goût as it says on Robbie Williams’ neck.
     
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    Sorry im generally against incest in all its forms and variations. Maybe that's just me.
     
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    And that’s your prerogative, you can have whatever hangups you like! But why this urge to impose your tastes on others?
     
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    I'd like to think as not having sexual thoughts about your family as a general common sense type rule. Not really an imposition.
     
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    yeah… for YOU. But what entitles you to police the thoughts of others? You seem really obsessed with making your personal tastes and opinions into rules and then carping at those who won’t dance to your rather self-righteous and narrow-minded tune.
    As I said before: you can “like to think” whatever pleases you… but so can the rest of us. And on this forum of all places surely we should be free from this kind of impromptu legislation.
     
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    Not doing this with you yet again. Incest is universally considered wrong is a hill I die on. You can quote me a 100 more times. Im moving on.
     
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    This is a thread that YOU started, it’s nothing to do with an “Oedipus fantasy” and I contributed in a spirit of goodwill. But you couldn’t resist getting abrasive and randomly reactivating an old topic.
     
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    As it happens I wear a shaft only PA secured cage and could have answered your query - but no, you’d rather pick a fight we’ve already done to death and then weirdly go “I’m not doing this with you yet again”!
     
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    And in fact, I’d be totally happy to debate this topic with you, but you never back up your positions with any reasoned argument - you just repeat the same knee jerk dogma laced with passive aggressive sniping.
     
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    From my point of view, you are the one who picked a fight. A suggestion: Just let it go!
     
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    The basics of piercing with chastity is that it secures the shaft inside the cage to prohibit pulling out unless you break/pick the lock. There are designs that allow you to wear your jewelry that the cage then secures through and then there are designs that require you to remove your jewelry and the cage has a fixed piece that goes through the piercing. There are examples of both style cages for both PA and Frenum. I’ve had a Frenum and now have a PA that I use to secure myself in the cage. For my Frenum cage I wore a straight barbell and the cage captured the balls such that when locked on me I could not pull out. Currently I have a PA with a hook that is fixed on the cage that goes through the piercing in place of jewelry when I wear the cage and if I am released I put in a curved barbell. I definitely prefer the PA piercing over the Frenum for multiple reasons with my only observation regarding the PA is the urine dribble both in and out of the cage. Both my wife and I see this as merely a small price to pay for a high security cage to keep me in, YMMV.
     
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    I once had a frenum piercing before chastity, after a few months the barbell migrated out effectively cutting my frenulum. I expect I had too much piv at the time and the skin was not strong enough to take it. I didnt mind too much because I had not had my frenulum removed when I went for my circumcision so it kind of finished the job!
    After that I got my PA piercing and stretched it up wearing closed segment rings of increasing thickness. So when my partner wanted me locked in a chastity cage I was ready to go. I now wear an Evotion Bijou with a 6mm pin. I put the shaft piece on first then line up the hole in the shaft piece with my PA hole and push through the pin. Then the glans piece with a sort of tab fits over my glans and the tab slips into the slot on the shaft piece. This traps the pin in place. A horizontal locking screw goes through both parts of the cage and is tightened. The cage is absolutely secure and can not be removed without undoing the screw.
     
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    I don’t know if this was mentioned or not, the biggest advantage is using a chastity cage without a ring.
     
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