I see that KY now has an expensive desensitizing product (KY Duration) that is available in your local drug store. We have invested in the desensitizing condoms but I'd like to double down as she can make me orgasm even using that product. I know I can use two condoms but she isn't a fan of condoms in the first place so using two would just turn her off. So now I'm thinking about easy off-the-shelf options to lower my sensitivity and get me back in the cage frustrated. My first thought is that while KY is available, OraGel makes a 'Severe tooth and gum pain' cream for about 1/3 the price which claims to be immediately effective and long lasting. This particular product has 20% Benzocaine and the customer reviews are very positive on its effectiveness. Has anyone tried this, have any concerns or have better suggestions? I am trying to avoid ordering something off Amazon if possible.