Not sure what I want pls help with info

Sounds like you need less access to the keys

 

I don't feel this is a proper way to introduce yourself. welcome to the Mansion. Please give us some more information about yourself. And at 18 o would say that it's pretty normal to have a very hight sex drive.

 

Absolutely. Masturbating several times a day is over the top but it isn't going to kill you. What you need to know is that you never reach the peak feeling of an orgasm if you keep emptying the chemicals that often. All it would take is one period of abstinence, at your age a few weeks would be more than enough, and then in an instance you would understand chastity. One orgasm after that period would show how much better than the dozens you would have otherwise had in the same period. There is no comparison.

 

Having three devices break is a lot! What ones have you tried so far?

 

At 18 , your hormones are still all over the place. Perhaps, wait a while and then decide.

 

I would suggest waiting until you can at least afford something like a genuine CB6000 or Holytrainer, the quality of these can be much much higher than some of the cheap copies. My CB6000 has been used 50% of the time for the past year for up to a couple of weeks at a time and all there is to show for it is some scuffing from where the lock hits the plastic.

Good advice, I waited nearly 10 years to find the right partner to give this a go. Makes such a world of difference to my experience.

 

Having a KH in person is totally different. Before I had a KH my longest time in chastity was 36 hours, my first session with a KH I went 6 days.

Personally I had a close friend who is openly bi and I just got drunk and texted him to see if he would want to fool around. He was more willing than I anticipated, I think I just needed to get past the initial embarrassment.

 

The thing you have to understand is the reality of chastity is very different from the fantasy. What you see in chastity porn does not happen very often in real life, unless you have a particularly enthusiastic mistress. By all means get a device and wear it for a while. You will discover that it has the capacity to be life changing if you let it, but it will most likely just be difficult. I have a Keyholder who I do not want to let down. If I was my own Keyholder I doubt I could go longer than a few weeks at a time.

 

Chastity is one of those fetishes that is great in your mind but not so much in real life where you can actually feel so horny you will do anything to cum. I will not sugar coat it, most who try chastity do not continue with it. More so with those who self lock. That is why chastity is not nearly as popular as other fetishes like BDSM and Cuckolding.

I will caution you about making sure you have an emergency key where you can get to it. You can make it difficult to get to it, but have it handy. Online you never know who is doing stuff for real or not ,so just be careful. I have been into a fetish lifestyle,living for 44 years with my wife and a shared girlfriend who was also my Mistress. We hung out with a lot of kinky people in all those years. One thing we learned and do is to play safe and sane. I learned that the hard way when I ended up in surgery. I had to use my emergency just last night. I woke up in pain and had to unlock.

Just from your initial post it sounds like you are more in love with the idea of orgasm denial than actually doing it. That is perfectly normal. Lots of guys get aroused by cuckolding and yet few actually do it. I get turned on by lots of things I see online but know from a lot of experience that reality is often not as good as the fantasy. It cannot hurt to try it. Keep in mind that much of what you read about the chastity experience is a lot different when you have a keyholder you love or submit to. I only endure orgasm denial to please my wife. If that were not the case I would jerk off as much as possible. Nothing wrong with jerking off or watching porn unless it interferes with you real life. Good luck.

 

You're 18 brother. Beat that thing like it owes you money. Lots of time for other stuff.
Oh and chase girls.

 

In my 50s jerking off about 2-3 times a day. At 18 it was even more. Don't feel guilty or ashamed. It's what evolution has given us.

 

No one has said this specifically yet, so I'll bite. Regarding your fear that chastity might not be what you truly want, because you lose interest as soon as you have your orgasm... That's normal. The exact same thing happens with my boy (who is 25). Arousal drops off dramatically for men post-orgasm, and since chastity is a self-inconveniencing fetish, it makes perfect sense that it would sound entirely unappealing to you once the sexual element is gone. It doesn't mean you "don't actually" have the fetish, it just means you're working like a healthy young male should.

Of course, fantasy and reality are different, but you might enjoy the fetish more if you can refrain from orgasming, at least sometimes. Try leaving yorself on the edge. It'll be torture, and you might cave after a few times, but that's perfectly reasonable for your age, so don't sweat it. I think that overall you'll get more out of your interest in chastity if you keep it at the forefront of your mind by edging and teasing yourself, rather than finishing every time you masturbate only to plunge yourself into "ew, why am I into this again?" territory.

But then again, I'm a woman, so take my advice with a grain of salt. >.>

 

At your age I literally jerked off so much it would be raw to bleeding. 4 to 5 times a day and anywhere the mood struck me where I could get away with it.

It's a fun journey, and even better when you hand the keys over to someone you trust enough to own your cock.

If you think it's a problem, device probably isn't the way to go...you will more than likely be able to cheat it. If it's a kink, explore away, but remember that you are young and finding a keyholder to trust in your age bracket might be problematic at best.

Good luck to you