I've been locked in permanent chastity, for the most part, for 3 years. Occasional release with numbing cream and condoms when wife wants me inside her, but no orgasm for me. I have been I locked in custom made cages for the past 2 1/2 years but 3 months ago got my first custom made cage with PA hook for my new piercing. I have been out once with numbing cream and condom since getting locked in this new cage. Last week I sent flowers to my wife at work and then took her out to dinner for our 21st wedding anniversary. I also bought her a new Hitach Magic Wand because she wore out the old one. I thought this would be the first anniversary she would release me for sex. Boy was I wrong. When I asked she put her hand around my neck then gently patted me on the side of my face and said "You are so cute..No, that won't be happening" then kissed me. She told me that if I was lucky I could watch her masturbate in bed that evening. Later that evening when we were going to bed she lit one small candle and turned off the lights. She told me that I could watch her but only from across the room. I stood naked in my cage about 15 feet away and could only make out a silhouette of her body. She pushed the bed sheets asides to give me a better view then stared playing with her pussy. She was getting so wet I could hear the moisture as she dipped her fingers inside. After about 10 minutes of moaning and breathily heavil she had 3 orgams with the help of her magic wand. She said "Happy Anniversary " then instructed me to get into bed and spoon her. That was the end to our 3rd anniversary with me locked in chastity.