No more „male-sex fantasies“ allowed

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  1. Andrea_NL
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    Hi,

    I would like to tell you what happened to me in the last weeks...

    My wife caught me when I was watching her getting undressed before shower because the door was a little open. I am only allowed to watch her naked when she allows it which is very less times :-(

    She got very angry and asked me who the hell I am thinking to be...She lifted my dress, put my panties down, took my cage in her hand, squeezed my balls and asked me if I am in the position to watch her...I was very ashamed, turned red directly and whispered no...

    because of my behavior she added new rules until the end of the year:

    - I am not allowed to see her in bra and panties anymore
    - I am not allowed to have another orgasm this year
    - I am not allowed to sleep in our bedroom
    - I am not allowed to see my penis anymore...only full chastity belt and blindfolded for her cleanings which she now does only with gloves and cold water
    - Not allowed to touch her skin, only allowed to kiss her feed
    - no pants (even girls-pants) until the end of year...even outside our house only in leggings with short cut tops or dresses and pantyhose
    - daily strapon training when she arrives home from work

    my wife told me that this should remind me that she is not my sex-object when ever I like. she told me that she is the only one who decides when I am allowed a little intimacy with her. She ended a long monolog with the words „this is my body and my penis, not yours anymore - NEVER forget this again young lady - I am the one who wears the pants in this house“.
     
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    well, it's good to know where you stand
     
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    Pretty strict response, but I guess that's her choice.
     
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    Well, you disrespected and objectified her, so you're paying the price. Fair is fair.
     
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    jemima maid for my Mistress

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    well i think what has happen is cos you was being a peepy tom.
     
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    Jessica Alexander Trans woman not a mistress or Dom

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    Sounds like you’ve been demoted to being live in maid from husband.
     
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    One hell of a story there
     
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    If this is what you like than ok, for me though this seems waaaaay to strict.
    I stil love my wife and the way she looks. Not being allowed to to watch her in het panties would be to much. Not being able to sleep in the same bed too.
    Not being allowed to orgasm or seeing my dick for 2 months would be a dream come true..
     
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    Might be one of the most ironic titles I have seen on this forum... I can't tell if you are in on it or not...
     
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    My KEYHOLDER is close to this i sleep next to her she does not want me to touch her but she can lay on me and her goal is to kill hermy penis she want a sexual helper and a partner for household stuff and a penis is not needed for any of that. Her goal is for cage to go away and it still doesn't work.
     
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    If you insist on misbehaving, then you will be punished!
     
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    My BR and I played with him not seeing me naked. To be honest it lasted for a few fun days and then we were all over each other. Seemingly I lack willpower:rolleyes:
     
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    Same here. She pulled out 'no seeing/no touching' rule a couple of times, but it was her that forgot all about it when I tried and touch her couple of days later :D
     
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    If your happy with things as they are, there is no problem. From an outside perspective it seems like your are in toxic situation where she is just thinking up crap to see how far she can abuse you. I think you need to stand up for your self ( grow a set). Personally I would pack a bag, collect half the cash in the bank and walk away
     
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    Sounds more fantasy
     
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    Yes my wife is very strict...She is not used to any missbehaving from my side. When we started our relationship she made clear right from the beginning that it only work for her if she was in charge.

    Now nearly a month is gone and I would like to give you an update. Her new rules were realy very hard for me to accept and I couldn‘t realy get used to them. So I took all my courage and talked to her last week...here are the results:

    - I am still not allowed to see her in bra and panties until end of year but in pyjamas / a towel that covers her private parts when she comes out of shower...

    - I am definitive not allowed to have another orgasm this year but she told me that she is very satisfied about my behaving the last weeks so she told me if I continue I will have one in the begining of January.

    - I am still not allowed to sleep in our bedroom and she orderd a few times early bed-times for me which means she brings me to my separate bedroom at 9:30 pm and switch off the light but gave me a kiss on my forehead.

    - I am still not allowed to see my penis in free space...but I do not have to stay in a full chastity belt all the time anymore. As a compromise I am allowed to stay in a holy trainer Nano most of the time because she told me that she likes to see my blue balls and the sound of my lock when she is pegging me....I am still blindfolded for her cleanings which she now does also without gloves but still only ice-cold water

    - I am still not allowed to touch her skin, only allowed to kiss her feed but she touches me more and more and I am realy happy about that at least this is happening again

    - I am still not allowed to wear my girls-pants again. But because of Covid 19 my wife decided that I do not have to go outside the house to do errands...twice she took me out for a walk in high-rise leather leggings, with short pullovers and a down-jacket. Even one of her girl friends came from time to time to our house while I had to wear dresses.

    Of course such situations are still full of shame and humiliation for me but I see how proud it makes my wife that I do it for her and she would always defend me from inappropriate comments from third parties.

    - she realy did a lot of strapon training when she arrived home from work but not every day she took me with her strapon. For her it is important that directly when she comes home in the evening at the moment which is 3 times a week that I greet her directly on the door, kiss her feet and slowly without „touching“ put the strapon over her lap and slowly kiss it. Sometimes it‘s enough for her, sometimes she tells me to bend over and put my ass up in the air and took me from behind...It is important for her that I have this fear in my eyes when she has the strapon on and doesn‘t know if I only have to kiss or get it from behind. This week she gave me a break and I am realy thankfull for this.

    The next weeks will countinue to be tough but I am happy that my wife agreed to this compromises and I am also happy to see light in the end of the tunnel.
     
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