Hello everyone, i've been reading this forum for the last couple of months, now it's time to introduce myself and begin posting. i'm 26 y.o male, in relationship with sexy 20 y.o girl from over a year. we've been exploring some mild BDSM activities in our sex life (i.e. tying each other, blindflods, whips). at the beginning i was the dominant one, but i encouraged my girl to explore her dominant side and now we think of each other as switch. couple of weeks ago we started exploring male orgasm denial and we are both enjoying it. frankly, i'm very suprised by how enthusiastic my girl is to this topic. we started from 1-2 days of me denied (no chastity device, yet). as im writing, i'm denied from tuesday and my next orgasm is scheduled on friday (3 full days). but today my gf announced that she wants to deny my for a week (after next orgasm). which i'm very excited about! i'm going to buy a chastity device as her valentine's day gift and see what happens then ... cheers to all of You!
Hey buddy and WELCOME!!! May I ask: Have you given some thought to what type of device you would like to buy....? There's LOADS out there, all with various advantages and disadvantages.... What are you thinking of...? With the absolute kindest regards. J.
actually, i have. i used to have fully-closed steel device, exactly this model: http://i00.i.aliimg.com/img/pb/164/957/102/1102957164_479.jpg but it wasn't very comfortable: when fully closed, it was hard to put on, and impossible to urinate. so i didn't actually close the top part, just leave it open. which was bad, cause i found, it still allows me to masturbate (well, simply rubbing head of my cock, but i could orgasm this way) so i've decided to buy one like in my profile picture. hope it's a good choice that will suit me and my gf. perhaps anyone can say something about it? thanks
It may take a bit of trial and error to find which device is best for you, but the most important thing is to get started. The fact that you will be unable to have an orgasm rather than deciding not to have an orgasm adds a very special aspect to orgasm denial. Enjoy the ride!
not to mention being unable to have a full erection ... and having my orgasm dependent on my gf's mood ... can't wait to give it a try
Hey there! The device in your avatar is chrome plated.... This means it will: 1. Rust pretty quickly and; 2. Possibly cause skin irritation(s) IF you are susceptible to them.... That device is also very long.... If you don't fill it up you may well find it will pull on your balls badly when you try and get hard.... NOT a pleasant feeling!!! Shorter is usually better in chastity.... You should aim to have the tip of your member sitting against the end of the cage when you are soft.... So my advice is have a look at your measurements when at your softest!!! There are LOADS of devices out there so don't despair if this news appears bad....!!!! If you want any more input I'd be more than happy to help!! As I am sure would others here!!! With the absolute kindest regards. J.
thank You for Your comment. i'll take this into consideration. luckily, i still have some time before buying a device, so any comments or suggestions are appreciated.