Newbie here, maybe help others come out

New here and new to chastity, I'm actually only on my 3rd day locked but this is how I came out to the wife. I've been deciding how to tell her for awhile now.

Started by me having a dream of her locking me up a few days ago, I was thinking throughout the day I wanted to tell her so I said "Hey so I had this weird dream last night". She responds with haha okayy? what was it?

"I dreamed you were upset about something but cant remember and you said you were locking your little buddy up." That's weird... like chastity? Seems like a good idea (she was being sarcastic about the good idea). Later that night we started to get frisky and was starting to give me a handjob and I asked. So you gonna lock me up? "no that's weird".

Told her I was going to get one and ordered it online after taking measurements and when it came in I just left it on her side of the bed. She didn't open the box but knew. Eventually she asked if I could go grab her Starbucks and I said "well what do I get?" and she responds with what do you want?

I said I want that mouth and she said maybe later, that's a no. Well lock your buddy up and I'll get it for you. Said to do it myself.

I went in put on the chastity cage and gave her the keys, I asked her what she wanted and bought it. First night she unlocked me and we had a quickie. Next morning I locked up and left the keys on her end table and she wanted some that night but wanted me to unlock myself. Told her they were her keys to unlock me. Well she used her wand in bed next to me finished and then snuggled up to me.

Asked if I was going to take it off to sleep and told her no she has the keys. We just went to sleep. Last night she used the wand again we snuggled and went to sleep with me still locked up.

She seems on the fence so far but not against it and seems to be coming around some. Not trying to push too much.