Newbie Goddess and here to learn!

Welcome - enjoy the site

 

Good to see you here.
May I ask how you spank him? Do you use a cane?
It would be good to see if you manage to make those pretty parallel lines on his ass

 

Welcome to the CM community Goddess Claire. Hope You enjoy Your time here.

 

Welcome Goddess Claire,

It is always very pleasing to see another verified Female join the site, we are a little
thinly spread out on here but we are around if you need something or wish to just
say hi.

Goddess Jade.

 

welcome Goddess Clair
so wonderful to have one more superior lady finding her true place in this
wonderful world of female supremacy your true role in life

emily chelsea property of the amazing Goddess Jade

 

Welcome, and thank you for being verified!

Do you wish you had discovered chastity and submission sooner?

There is so much for you both to explore and enjoy. Likely, you are both communicating much more often and on a deeper level than you did before starting down this path. That alone does wonders for a relationship. The closeness and trust that results is quite eye opening. It just took a bit of kink.

As far as “playing my part”, I suspect it is just semantics. You seem very willing and that makes you a very, very, special woman. Your greatest power over him is not role playing a part, but being authentic to yourself. When you command him because it is something you want done as opposed to playing a part, he will pick up on that and melt. He will be powerless to resist. It seems to be a guy thing. Let us know how you both progress.

You have so much to explore, make sure to have fun doing it!

 

Hi all lovely females, strong women, and lifestylers. I need help. After being in an FLR for a long time with my spouse of long time....I am stalling out and need a recharge. Tell me why you do what you do and how you keep the energy going.... I want to be his domme and lead this lifestyle....but I need some lifestyle 24/7 sisters to help guide me. Thanks and look forward to chatting

 

@Princess517 possibly you all would have a wonderful time chatting?

 

Welcome X

 

This is an excellent topic worthy of its own thread. Domme burnout is not uncommon.

 

Welcome Mistress and I do so hope you get the encouragment and advice you seek from your fellow Mistresses. We need more of you active and controlling.

 

Welcome! I'm sure you'll find plenty of advice here. The trick is filtering out the stuff that doesn't fit your particular relationship. Every couple is different, so don't feel like there's a specific "part" you need to play. Try a bunch of things, see what works, discard the rest.

I think the most important thing is not to take the other person for granted. That's basically true for every relationship, but becomes even more significant when there's a huge imbalance in power. I treat hubby's chastity as a gift, and make sure he knows how much I appreciate it.