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    Hi, I'm Deborah, and I am new to all of this.

    Well, not to Internet Forums, I was active on some of the earliest internet forums, and listservs before that -- I am not young!

    I'm very much in love with, and keyholding for, someone who is not new to any of this. So here I am! I'm feeling quite shy, which I suppose is not very Mistress like. At this point I'm pretty sure I am the softest Domme on Planet Earth, but I am beginning to understand and experience the advantages.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion, Mistress.
     
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    Welcome!
     
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    Welcome Mistress Deborah to the Mansion and it's community, hope you Enjoy your time here, and hopefully in a short time here your knowledge of being a striker Domme will have grown.
     
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    A respectful, humble hello Mistress and welcome to CM. Great community
     
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    welcome and Im sure you will find some ideas here from this group
     
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    Welcome!
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion
     
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    Welcome to the mansion, plenty of good advice here.
     
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    Hello Mistress Deb!

    Welcome to our little corner of the internet!

    My Mistress is a very caring Domme, but will surprise me regularly when her strict and stern side pops out.

    I hope you find this site helpful and fun! Good luck with your new role!
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Welcome to CM and welcome to being his keyholder. Lots of good people here, mostly on the other side of the key. I'm from the DMV too.
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion, Mistress Deb. We would love to hear about your journey as a keyholder and we'll gladly answer any of your questions as best as we can. You need only ask them. There are many experienced keyholder Domme's here in the mansion I'm sure will gladly give you any guidance you desire.
     
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    Being a "soft Domme" definetely isn't a sign of weakness! So here's a really soft welcome! :+1:
     
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    If you get verified there's a section and I believe a chat just for kh's. Probably be very helpful. I don't envy your inbox though lol.
     
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    Welcome. I hope you enjoy our community. Good luck.
     
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    Welcome to Chastity mansion Mistress Deb :)
     
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    Hello and Welcome!!
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Welcome.

    You're not at all alone. My wife is a very sweet, soft, caring person. There's a term "Gentle Femdom" that I think sums up my better half.
     
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    LOL you must be around my age then.

    Welcome to the Mansion, world of knowledge (and bullshit) here about such things.
     
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    I'm working on that! TY
     
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    I would like to thank everyone for the warm welcome! I'm a little overwhelmed, but also deeply impressed with how kind some of the people I have interacted with are.
     
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    Soft Domme, or gentle domination is a thinking woman’s game. It is not a weakness.

    A soft Domme doesn’t need whips and latex. She can obtain the same impact with just a softly spoken word or “that look”. She is awe inspiring by how easy she makes it look. It’s not. She has a depth of strength that demands full attention. She has far more freedom than the stereotypical image. She does not have to live up to someone else’s fantasy.

    Please share what you have learned. You have valuable experience!
     
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