new to FLR and needing advice

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  1. mistressphoenix
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    Hello all,

    I am new to the FLR idea and have a partner who wants to be put in permanent chastity. I have a few questions that I really would love some help with. Should I post them here?

    MP
     
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    Hello @mistressphoenix and welcome to the site :)

    There a great search facility on the site which might throw up son answers for you and then you can post questions or start a discussion in The Pedestal area

    The folk here are most friendly and helpful.

    Enjoy the site :)
     
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    Welcome ma'am and absolutely you should. You lovely ladies on this site are in complete charge, we men are sinply here to serve and assist you.
     
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    hello @mistressphoenix curtsy. i hope you have a lovley time in here and get all Your questions asked.
     
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    I have several years experience with FLR, with my husband locked in chastity. Feel free to PM me.
     
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    New to FLR and already talking permanent chastity? I would definitely ask lots of questions and take things very very slowly. If you aren't sure about FLR then jumping in the deep end is not likely to end well without lots of communication both with people who already live the lifestyle and with your own partner.

    Welcome to the Mansion where you could find what you are looking for.
     
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    Hello and welcome to the Mansion and yes do post away. Do also feel free to approach other Keyholders here if you don't feel comfortable with publishing them in the forums.
     
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    @Jasmic68 very true. Communication is key here. Jumping in with permanent chastity is a pretty long jump. If you're going from a "vanilla" type of relationship into full FLR and chastity it could potentially be a very bumpy road ahead. My M/W and I are full FLR and long term chastity now. We've been at it almost a year now and we had some rough patches, For one, I was pushing to hard and I needed to let her digest the whole concept first and get comfortable. We had talked about our needs and wants frequently and discussed what works and what doesn't several times before we had found a equally rewarding place. Talk with your partner and then talk some more. You'll be glad you did.
     
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