So I'm new to CM not really new to chastity. I've been playing with chastity for years now. My S.O. gave it a shot but ultimately doesn't like it or just shows no interest in sex. This is probably my fault because I became enamored with chastity and making her orgasim. I've always been sex focused and at times selfish. Does anyone else see times chastity or fetish stuff becomes self serving?