Hello, I found this website through some folks on twitter and they suggested I join this to get a better understanding of chastity. I like the word CHASTITY it just sounds sexy for some reason. Maybe because it's got the second half do the word is like titty. I love titties. Well to start off I've been married to my beautiful wife for 35 years this month. We were high school sweethearts. I've had cuckold urges for years. I can't pinpoint exactly when but I'd say for at least 25 years. I've always hid it away and used porn to satisfy my desires. Another urge is that I’m bisexual. At least I think I am. I’ve hidden all this from her for a very long time. If I blurted out every kinky thing I like or think I’d like she’d run away like a scared rabbit. I love her dearly and never want to hurt her so I think that’s why I’ve suppressed all of these feelings. I think it’s time I start to bring this up but I’m scarred and not sure how to proceed. I’m thinking the best approach would be to introduce her to the idea of chastity. She already knows I have kinky ideas but she’s never expressed a desire to expand on them. I’ve teasingly admitted I’d like to be pegged for instance. She said she was worried about hurting me and she didn’t expand beyond that. I’ve also told here years ago I’d like to watch her with another man. She thought I was crazy and said that stuff like that leads to divorce. Looking back, my presentation to her was awful. I remember we were at the food court at the mall when I brought it up. Boy that was just a boneheaded approach. She’s very quiet when it comes to sex. Our sex life is great but at times I’d like to try more. So I’m here to listen and learn from others. Please feel free to contact me if you’d like. Looking forward to exploring this chapter of our lives together. Thanks for reading my intro and apologize if it’s long and wordy. I started writing this on my tablet but quickly switched to my laptop.