Hi All, I've always been interested in chastity but never acted on it. I'm a young male and contacted a mistress in my area who is willing to be my keyholder. I ordered a device and it's on it's way. I'm really nervous and afraid I might not be ready for it. Now I am having all these doubts. What if I go into chastity and don't like it? Will my mistress be willing to cut ties with me and take me out per my request? Obviously I hope all goes well, but there's always that, what if. Does anyone have insight on this?
If you weren't sure why didn't you just try it as a self locker first, to get over the initial worries before handing the key to someone else? If you don't like chastity don't do chastity. It depends on the arrangement you have with your mistress. Don't you have safe words in place? If you haven't got any sort them out before locking and handing the key over. We all suffer from the what if's. Locking your penis up and giving someone else the power is obviously going to raise concerns.
By the way, while your user name is fine today, what about in five years time? Will you still be a newbie then?
well it hard when you first has to have a cage on you but after a bit its ok cos you get use to it and then when it get took off you feel all funny without it.