I am new to chasity with an was just wondering how the Erections work. when I put my male chastity on It pulls my testicles down really hard and it still seems like I get a boner and thoughts picture in my profile is what I'm talking about
your cage should only be as long as your penis is when its flaccid. That helps with the erections, but to be honest there is no way to stop the erections completely except for some ice or a cold shower lol. No worries, you will get used to it.
Hi there and welcome! @ineverknew has it spot on... The cage length is very important. And whilst we, as men, maybe don't want to undersize ourselves in the tackle department, going short is definitely better in terms of chastity!!!! I have found that you can help yourself a little with the night boner situation by relaxing.... I don't know the names of the muscles, so I'll do my best to explain myself! When I get an erection, the area around my perineum and butt tenses up. I'm not sure if this is the pelvic floor, or is related to the anal sphincter, but it is a definite tensing... almost like trying to hold off going to the loo for a number two! So, when the night wood wakes me, I try and focus on that tensing and then force myself to relax it... For me, it seems to 'soften' my erection a little and helps it to go down a bit quicker... Almost like the tensing is keeping the hard-on strong. It's a challenge to be sure!!! Sometimes I like the feeling of trying to be hard so I tense up again! In the end, it helps me a bit. And if I relax in conjunction with going for a wee, the hard-on can disappear quite quickly! With the absolute kindest regards. J.
Wow! You're really pulling your device away aren't you?! When I get hard in my cage the erection seems to be more 'inside' my abdomen. Yours is definitely outside!! My first reaction, and this is by no means the absolute answer (sorry), is that your base ring is too big.....? How's the fit when you are flaccid...? Is it loose? Can you fit more than one finger under it? Hopefully some more experienced people will come and have a look at this too!!! With the absolute kindest regards. J.
The cb6000 was same and it really seems to be perfect went flaccid but I'm always honey and it just pulls like crazy
Mine pulls too until I started using the Points of Intrigue. Gives me less room to grow in and some pain if I start to get hard. Works for me but price sucks for what you get.
Thanks for that, that solved that problem for me. I had always such a pulling feeling when it wanted to get hard. ...so i read your reply and changed to a smaller ring (the gf will understand that i used the emergency key for that ) and not it is more comfortable, not hurting or pulling anymore - thought it hurt to get my ...balls into the ring.
Ok thanks for checking it out I'll try smaller thank you again it was hard to get on so thought it was right
That was my thought as well. But i have to say a smaller (not: too small) ring is much more comfortable. I had also trouble to get into the small ring, but once it is on, it is quite comfortable to wear, no pulling, no moving. But because it was quite a pain to get into the ring, it is also a "think twice before removing and putting on again"-thing.