New to all this - Girlfriend surprised me!

Ahhhhh DAH... Earth to Dan402, Earth to Day402... Come in Earth to Dan402... what is the problem here...???????????? <caugh> ?????????????

Get a ring on that women's finger you silly boy! <wink>
Let me attempt to put this into perspective for you darling.
If all you have to do is walk around with that sexy device securely locked on protecting you from your desires to jerk off for a few days to get the best sex ever, what exactly is the problem here?
<fingers tapping on desk>

Hmmm..... Sounds like a pretty good trade-off you won't find with many of us from the sound of things.

I can so relate to her based on what you typed. I love my man and I love him being the man. I do have dominant tendencies that I enjoy exploring on him and he lets me. Not that I leave him much choice <evil grin>. I really like teasing and denying. It feels so powerful. I know his weaknesses and I use them to keep him turned on.

She seems to be like me. I just don't want him playing with Mr. Happy when I am not around or if I don't want him too. <*G*> I especially don't want him lusting after other women online! Is that too much to ask? <Sigh>

Don't worry when we want penetration you will know. <wink> I also get really turned on thinking that he might be trying to jerk-off and can't. <poor thing> So so so sexy.

BTW... I just got my ring on Valentine's Day! <SUPER BIG SMILE> I may post about it somewhere later. He was so adorable proposing so my advice is; get the ring and come up with a clever way to put it on her finger. and enjoy the rewards for a lifetime! <smile>

All teasing aside I wish you luck figuring out your dilemma. I hope you clearly and confidently find your answer.

 

First of all, congratulations to @Ashley777 I have to say, I agree 100% with @Ashley777 if you love this woman and she's good to you and cares about you, then absolutely yes, you should ask her to marry you; otherwise, you are not honoring her as a woman. All she has asked of you is to only have erections and orgasms to her at the times of her choosing, if this improves the intimacy between you two and makes her happy then it's the least you can do for her. Will it always be easy, no, but it's not just about making her happy or turning you both on, it's for your own good as a man, it will force you to be a better man to her and to appreciate her at the maximum heights possible. If you love her, why would you deny her that?

 

I think you'll find you've already answered your own question...

 

Wow! Failure number one, if this chastity is going to work, where you give up control of your orgasms, than you must abate by her rules.
By not leaving your cage off as directed you failed her test, which may have been to see if you can control from jerking off.
Unless you self-lock there is no compromise, she is in complete control , you follow her orders, you don't interject your will.
I would never put on a cage without being ordered, I have given up my orgasms to her, it is her decision when I will be wild or locked up, not mine.

 

CONGRATS ON THE ENGAGEMENT!!!

 

I would def continue exploring slowly. No need to rush the ring but she def sounds like a keeper! Just don't forget the non-sexual things that can hinder a marriage to consider long-term. Good luck, you seem to have struck gold!

 

wow. your so lucky. I'm shure she gets an kick out of reading all these posts you are making. this she would chime in and say her side

 

Pretty keen to get my hands on the hypnosis file

 

Well Dan here's the deal - hypnosis only works if you want the effect. If you didn't want to wear the cage for her all the time the hypnosis could not compel you to want to put it back on! You have an amazing girl who as @Ashley777 said is giving you the most amazing sex of your life. Giving up masturbation is a minuscule price to pay for all that you are gaining in this relationship - deal the deal.

Also as a hypnosis enthusiast I would be really interested to access that file if you don't mind.

 

Soreness around ring and underside of your sack. I have had this problem. Its a pinching burning feeling. Skin gets bunched up and when you get aroused your sack gets stretched and balls get squeezed. To help with this. Find a good hand cream lotion. Shaving and being hairless in the cage area helps. After being smooth. Lather up and often. I have had to issues after putting a heavy coating of a hand cream lotion. Key to staying locked up and getting no sores is moisturizer.

 

Thanks for all the congrats everyone. Needless to say, I am excited. My dream of a man letting me fulfill our fantasies with chastity have come true. It's fun to live your dreams and experiment with your fantasies.

This diamond is my wedding ring and that adorable stainless steel ring that attaches to that sexy little tube.... and locks on... securely... is his. <smile - wink>

The fun is only just beginning. <*G*>

 

Sounds like she's just what you need. Do as she says. She will almost certainly be a member here (Do you know her ID/handle?)

She wants the control, 24/7/365. She is doing the needful perfectly.

You want to put a ring on her finger. Good ambition. Make the offer, ideally a day or two into a locked session. But maybe drop a few hints first, and see how she reacts. If she says not now, fine, you hardly know each other yet.

 

Plastic isn't as good as steel for 24/7. But useful for specific occasions, e.g.airport security checks. That said, most of the security people at airports will almost certainly have seen it all before anyway....

 

@Dan402

Ahhh... <*G*> how cute. I noticed you were dabbling with that file and was curious if you would find it to be useful. <smile>

My Fiancee found that file very helpful as well. I was clear about my intentions and that I wanted him locked up 24/7. He was so cute. He never thought that file would work on him. Maybe it hasn't I don't know but he has had the hardest time leaving that sexy thing off. <evil grin> He is such a good boy he never argues about putting it right back on. <sigh> So adorable. I guess it's just part of him now. <wink>

I find the results fascinating keep updating us if you don't mind. Continued success with your new adventure together.