I've just done the first version of a set of principles for My Pete and I to talk about. I'm hoping it may be the beginning of a journey and I know he is excited but also has some worries, which I've tried to allay. I've posted the principles here and would be very grateful for any suggestions. I'm hoping to talk to him in a few days' time. I know that what I've written will feel rather tame to many people on this forum but please remember we're just starting out and feeling our way. Please be gentle. I'm building confidence by finding out as much as I can and I've thrown myself into this over the last couple of weeks. The wonderful people on this forum have been a huge help. Thank you. Sal.
I agree wholeheartedly with your principles. I am sure your partner will be freaked and fully aroused at the same time. I don't think you need to change anything. Good luck!
I agree very well done. If I got that from my wife I’d be excited, even if I wanted to talk about it more. So if there are areas he is not sure he is up for just talk about it, try it out short term and say that part of the principles can be fluid and change if needed.
Is doesn’t matter if some may find them tame, it’s what works for you and your relationship, enjoy it!