Saying hello, I'm Becky and my husband is Tim (pseudonyms obviously). After a fair bit of searching trying to learn about chastity I have found myself here. Tim has persuaded me that chastity is something he wishes to explore and I have agreed to play my role for him.
Hopefully that will turn around very quickly and rather than playing a role you will actually get to really enjoy it and will really take over. That is when you will find out whether it is just a fantasy for him or something he is actually really wanting to do.
Welcome, Miss Becky! I know that you will learn a lot about chastity here that will help you with your role playing. When my wife of 30+ years first began to control me, she played the role, too. But, once She learned more about me by controlling my ability to think with my little penis, the whole idea began to take a much more serious twist. Then, when She later learned about my feminine side and began to take advantage of that and to dress me and treat me accordingly, things took on a completely different turn. What has evolved over the past 5 years of so is a deeper and more understanding relationship that we ever had during the first 25 years of our marriage! We both love it!
You dont sound very enthused? I could be wrong though. Also you dont have to play a "role" per say. Just be yourself. There is really only one key aspect to chastity and that is denying him orgasms for a certain period of time. Once he hands over the keys, play the game however you want. You are in charge. Have fun with it. Read up on the subject and find what YOU like about it and then play it in a way that makes it fun for you
Welcome Becky Welcome Becky. Hope to hear what works what don't always room for one hear. You can have alot of fun with this and it can bring you both much closer to each other.
Welcome Becky, I do hope you find some interesting things here to help you with your new adventure. As I am sure you have realised by now, this world seems to be quite new to females so feel free to ask anything you would like to know. The guys will always be happy to help and if you would rather be a bit more discreet so he doesn't know what you are thinking, then the ladies will be happy to help via messages lol.
Welcome! As the others have said, once you get more comfortable with this, it'll become more and more about you and what you desire, and less and less about him and what he wants. Ultimately, what he wants is to submit to what you want. Good luck and let us know if there's anything we can do to help.
Welcome! I had no idea this world existed until my fiancé brought it up to me. I was a little intimidated when I first joined this forum since I had no idea at the extremes some enjoy the chaste life. We enjoy our chastity play, but by no means do we consider it our lifestyle. It is a kink that we enjoy diving into on occasions. This is a great place to learn how people do things and to get ideas. It is also a good place to get know people who have similar likes. Have fun and enjoy yourselves. The key is communicating with your partner so you guys are on the same page about what you want out of this.
Your play can begin any way you like it. I love cb play, but we use it for foreplay and not long term denial. There is no contest. Enjoy each other. Ss
Go at it at your own pace and enjoy it and don't let him top from the bottom. If you think he should stay locked let him be locked.
Welcome!! I would say communication is key and taking it at your own speed will get you the most from chastity, wether it's 24/7 or just as foreplay or anywhere in between!! Cheers!!!
@BeckyKH Good for you, Becky. It will soon become clear to you if he is serious about chastity or not. Don't let him push you into anything you're not happy with.
I've not been on here for long as me and my partner have just started the chastity fun....... Although he is not caged we are still enjoying finding out what to do... But it is important to communicate with each other.... And we are both enjoying what is to cum (or not as the case maybe) in the weeks and months ahead
Hi guys, welcome to the weird and wonderful world of chastity! I'm quite new here too but have a bit of experience from a similar position so if there's anything I can do to help let me know!