I got my 1st chastity cage around Christmas. Since then I have been locked for at least several hours a day every day. My longest time in chastity has been a week and a half. I am always locked all weekend (from Friday night till Monday morning). I love being locked in chastity. I want her to dominate me. I want my wife to cuckold me. I especially want to watch my wife with a black man. I admit that I have a tiny penis and want my wife to get the pleasure of a real man's dick inside her. I am turned on by SPH. Everyone should get a good laugh from knowing that my tiny penis is locked up in a chastity cage. Unfortunately my wife is only lukewarm to the chastity thing. She doesn't mind that I lock up my penis. And she does enjoy that I give her better oral sex and then fuck the with a big black dildo until she orgasms. It's the best sex she's had in years. But she has no interest in wearing my chastity key or teasing and denying me, or making fun of my tiny penis. I'm just not sure if she will ever take on the dominate role and be the mistress I was hoping she would embrace. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
One step at a time.. good enough at this moment she doesnt think too weirdly about her man wanting to lock up his own penis.. leave the key at a place usually frequented by her.. tell her its there until she decides to unlock it for sex.. ask her permission before allowing you to cum or not at all during sex.. promise her daily oral orgasm while you stay locked.. yes, use that dildo on her instead if she ever ask for sex.. That should suffice and not appear too pushy before you promote other kinks like she being fucked by bbc.. well done my friend.
Hello and welcome. You know the story about leading a horse to water but you can’t make him drink? Well if a person isn’t interested in something, there isn’t much you can do to change their mind. You can however ask her for a favor, that it turns you on, and ask if she would do that for you. It wouldn’t feel the same because you will know she’s only doing it for you, which kind of defeats the purpose of her being dominant. Although once she’s doing it and going through the motions, she might find out she actually likes green eggs and ham. Best of luck