Hello all, Small introduction I'm a 35 year old bi-sexual male and have been kinky my entire live but I've kept it to myself because of the stigmas around it. But I'm starting to share more with my partner but also for myself. The hardest thing I'm dealing with right now is trying to expose my wife of 8 years to the underlying person who's always been there. You know I was the kid at 12 tying himself up and then struggled to jerk off. Always had a thing for wearing jock straps and in a way that's how i've been kinky while not letting it be noticeable. I love Under Armor's Boxer Jocks and it was my way of enjoying my kink while not reveling it. My wife and I have been going through some pattern changes with work schedules and I've felt neglected so initially i self locked, one to try it and two to engage the concern that my masturbating was what was creating the distance. At the same time it was another way to engage my kinkiness in public but with no one knowing.
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