New guy looking to be shown the ropes. Male and female may apply

Hey so, I'm new to this site (and chastity in general). So i decided that the first thing I should do is seek out someone who knows what they are doing to help me (not) get off. I only ask that you aren't too strict as I do have a life and a boyfriend irl that I have to interact with every week. I use emlalock but will sign up to whatever site you use to make things easier. I recently broke my code box because of a goof with trying to set the combo. My dream holder is somone who lives near to me and maybe would be willing to do a little teasing through pictures of foreplay (I know this will probably never happen unless I pay someone or something, but can't a man dream?) I'm into pretty much everything except ball torture, water sports, feces, vomit that sort of thing. But for the most part I'll partake in pretty much any kink. Let me know if you're interested!
P.S. if you're worried about me being taken, he's okay with the whole idea. In fact, he suggested that I go and do something like this.