New Explorations

Hi,

After lurking on CM for a couple years, I've decided to join. I'm 46 & married to an amazing wife. We have no kids and have a very active sex life which has always included some D/s elements and other kinks that we explore.

Over the last 3 years or so we've played with chastity off and on, mostly self-locking to see how it felt. She was on-board but I wouldn't say she fit into the key holder role. In the early years of our relationship I was the dominant one and she was submissive in the bedroom. Over the last 5 years or so, I think that's shifted as I've explored more of my submissive side.

Introducing the cage, first a CB3000 which was quickly replaced by a MM Queen's Keep, helped accelerate the shift in our play. Currently I'm in a Kink3D Cobra N and while I miss the steel, this the K3D is the perfect fit for me.

Things also shifted when we tried pegging, which I have come to love. I've also used a strap-on to please her occasionally, but that is a fairly new development that I definitely want to explore more.

I also occasionally crossdress but that has been a part of my life for decades in one form or another, it's not tied to chastity or her trying to feminize me or make me a sissy, that's not my thing. She is aware and fully accepting of "Chloé" when she needs to come out. And yes, Chloé stays caged, no free pass for her.

I joined CM because over the last month I think that she has taken the next steps, on her own, towards actively being my key holder and being in control of the cage and my orgasms. We aren't going for world records for lockups or denial. If she wants PIV, which is usually weekly, or to use my cock for other reasons, I want to give her that control. I don't cum unless she allows it. Simple as that.

Looking forward to meeting folks, learning and sharing some of my stories.

-S2U