I’m new never really actually done anything but want to try it all looking for help tips and guidance from anyone. I’m also opened to being trained if someone is interested but I have no experience so it would have to be from scratch
I wouldn’t over think it… go get some type of modular device to get some sizing right… wear it, get used to it, work your way up… don’t hurt yourself!
First find a cage that you like and fits you well, wear it as long as you can until you get used to it, this could yake up to 2 months. Buy a timed lock and set it for your goal and lock both keys in it. There are a few people who are looking for subs keep posting they will find you.