My wife and I desperately want to get into male chastity. We have tried several generic chastity devises with the slip on rings for the penis and ball sack to slip through. They do not work for me as my ball sack is very high and tight. Can someone please help me get the proper cage?
The Holy Trainer V2 as far as I understand works better for people who are high and tight. I owned that device but I'm not always high and tight so I can't say for certain that that would be your best choice. Also sometimes it takes a little practice to get devices on especially if you're new to this.
I guess it's just how high and tight especially if you are cold . Thus I can see ball trap devices may not work. I assume you have tried different size base rings. Maybe on their own might be a good start , they should stay on if they are the right size. Xx Wendy
High and tight is a bit of a generic statement, it might be more helpful to describe the issue in detail. Are you having problems with slippage or is it a pain issue? If pain, then where is the pain, etc.?
You'll need to find the right ring size first. The folks at mature metal sell a sizing set so you can find out the best size base ring for you.
After a few months with my Holy Trainer my "high and tights" are hanging a good bit lower. I did have to drop down from a 45mm ring to a 40mm one.
I am high and tight, have found that a base ring that I can barely get a finger in the top, is a good fit. After owning a very short mature metal jb, was fine with it except for morning erections and teasing sessions. Because it was so short, and because I had almost no sack to stretch out, if excited it would get hard behind my base ring. So basically the only thing that wasn't erect was the inch and a half from tip that the cage covered. It stuck out 3 inches and my balls were squeezed way too tight. I got a cheap one to use while waiting for a pa device which was right at flacid length and it fits great. Instead of getting hard behind the base ring, it tries to get hard in the cage but can't get fully erect. Also noticed this base ring is thicker and stays closer to my body which helps it not slide down. That's just my anatomy though, I'm a grower too, so maybe that may have something to do with it.
You just might need to get a penis piercing and a guiche. A guiche is a piercing between the ball sack and the anus. With these places pierced a little padlock can be used to lock the indwelling rings together. Type Guiche into google and click images. Please let us know what you think. Ss
Some days I wish mine would get that old age droop I have heard about. Left on their own mine stay up close most of the time.
Before my Holy Trainer my balls were much closer to my body than they are now. A year spent occasionally pulling my balls through the ring has stretched them and loosened them considerably. I have just had to order a 40mm ring, the next size down from my first ring, because my body has changed so much.
Check the gap between the base ring and the cage part. Ive the one in my avatar but i had the base ring shaved down so the cage can be slid all the way to the base. I use small washers after the cage is on to shorten the gap between base ring and cage. TitaniumChastiTi, made the adjustments for me.
@BumperBob The advice given about just wearing the ring is valid and also a ball stretcher should be considered. The scrotum flesh is usually quite stretchy and after time will give a little. Otherwise, a ring-less device or a full belt will be needed.
@BumperBob Just a suggestion, but you might want to consider a belt. I bought several "hanging" units and none of the rings would work with my scrotum. Previously, I sent a picture to Mistriss_MM for her thoughts and she expresses doubt my scrotum would work successfully with the type units others find good. I recently bought a chastity belt (CB) from a firm in Germany at: http://www.fetisch-felix.de. I have been going through adjustments with it, but having the weight of the cage hung from my waist seems to improve things. The top locking mechanism is connected with a ring that goes below the scrotum. I have found the ring from that company does not irritate me. It's worth giving these a look. Hope this is helpful!
May IU suggest something like this: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01I4WTAPG/ref=mp_s_a_1_104 It is cheap, I have found them with prime shipping for $40. They are stainless steel. She they are pretty comfy for me. But I don't know how long your equipment is.
The supply of 304 S/S amounts to 70% of the worlds output of the product and there is a massive amount of over production, combined with pay levels in the country's where they are produced that 99% of us could not survive, it allows people to purchase these very cheaply, makes plastic devices appear worthless.
Mistress Lori has some devices that go along the shaft but do not interact with the ball sack. A Prince Albert piercing is enough to make it work. I have had a PA piercing done twice in my life. Easy and one of the least painful and quickest healing piercings out there. http://www.chastitytube.com Although, I am in a full time custom made stainless steel belt and love it, as does my wife and highly recommend this route if you want to do it properly.