So, hi!:cat: This little post is a sort of asking for advice post, sort or kvetch and (k)vent. I would love to find some woman who I could call Mistress, who wants to be served by a slightly husky sissy maid and keep that same sissy maid in chastity. Well so far it is a common story, there are a few of us out here. Now I know the best real way to meet a Mistress is to actually just go and meet people. Go to the clubs and munches, say hello, be respectful, charm somebody. but there had to be a but right. Well here in London lives my sister, and she is quite active on the scene. She knows a lot of people, and a lot know her. I'm not really ready to come out to my sister as a sissy maid yet but I have the fear (mostly truth based fear) that if I do make appearances someone will see me and then say to sis... "hey I didn't know your brother is a sissy maid" Am I crazy? Is it a big city, are people more discrete than I am giving them credit for? or am I right to keep it on the QT unless I want sis to know everything. Also while I have your attention, any Mistresses out there looking for a maid ;-) Seriously though a general question, who knows about YOUR kink?