My journey.

Greetings everyone. I'm a huge lurker infrequent poster. I just wanted to share my experience thus far.

Awhile ago I got a mm jailbird that I've found to be just amazing. My kh at the time wasn't very sure why I wanted to do this but entertained my situation. I kept the keys would frequently ask to be out and rarely she said no. Basically I was casually chaste and only when I didn't feel the urges. Suddenly that changed.

I don't remember the exact details but I remember saying look up things related to key holding. Well being the smart and wonderful woman she is, she did and found out a lot more. Since I work overnight and she does not I got woke up to quite a surprise. She told me how she had done research and how it's really called male Chastity, instantly I sucked in my breath. I knew she found a treasure trove of information. She went on to explain how she understands it and how I want to worship her body and that she got the things needed to make a necklace and I was to turn over the keys.

Fast forward to now. My keys are around her neck, and I'm waiting on an emergency key container so I can keep an emergency key. Rules are in place and currently mid punishment for having an orgasm without her. And I have to say I'm struggling. Did I ask for this? Yes I guess. It's now what I fantasized about but it's harder than I thought, but at some weird time I like it too. Plus sides sex is bliss. No more wasting self on porn and I want her more than ever and it's nothing but motivation for me. Technically I don't like the cage but the honor system I've proven to her that if she allows me to play in the cage, I still orgasmed and can't be trusted.

Have others started off roughly? I'll admit it. I'm still allowed our intimate moments and usually weekly but the orgasms are denied, but only for a week at most, except punishments and some other things I'm sure I'm going to discover.