My journey being locked

A little about me: I’m a 30y/o gay male.

I’ve been wearing a chastity cage for 3 days now. I locked myself up on Monday morning before work. I was not sure if I would last. I got a new cage several weeks ago, the Cobra, and had issues with it for a while. I reached out to the manufacturer and got a smaller cage, the S, and a bigger curved base ring. I put it on as a tester to see if I could make it through the day.

It felt so good, I slept in it. In my previous attempts with chastity overnight, this has been a struggle. The cages have been just big enough for me to get a little hard and struggle against the cage. Don’t get me wrong, this felt amazing and was frustrating in a fun way—except overnight. Well this new cage is small enough that I cannot get hard. I have the impulse and my glands may swell a bit through the cracks in the cage. But I cannot really get hard.

Throughout the day, the cages has a constant pressure just across the top of the head of my penis—just as a subtle reminder that I’m locked. This is a record for me so far. I’ve never made it over, I think 2 days. I super excited. I’m trying to go for 2 weeks locked—maybe even through No-Nut-November.

My keys are locked in a lockbox. The code is in ChastiKey. I’m not entirely certain when I will get my keys back.

I read earlier from someone else’s post that they have never deprived themselves of chocolate now versus more at a later time. I very much relate to that comment. I have never really deprived myself of jacking off or watching porn when I want to. My husband has suffered a little from those activities. I hope this is as fun for him as it is me. I’m hopeful he becomes a little more dom.

I’ really starting to wonder when the real frustrations will start to hit me. I’m horny now and a bit annoyed that I cannot enjoy myself. But when is it going to really hit me? I want to push myself to see what I’m capable of with this.

What does everyone do with the pent up energy and feelings?