Well I finally talked to my wife about my chastity kink. She is willing to try it with me and see how it goes. We'll probably start slow and easy at first. Maybe just during intimate times or for a few hours or a day at a time. Hopefully it goes good and we can progress into longer lock ups. Days, weeks. As of today I'm not locked but this was a major step for me/us! Hopefully will be trying our first locking in the next few days. I'm very excited and can't wait!
You seem to have started well, with honest conversation. Doing it for short term or as part of sex play sounds like a good plan to get both of you comfortable with it. just be honest with her about what you like and want (i.e., if you want long-term lockups) but also listen to her desires. Sounds exciting. Good luck and enjoy.
Thank you! I feel so amazing in that skirt! Hopefully I'll be able to start an album on here soon with more cute stuff.
Well the day finally came. I'm now locked with my wife as my key holder. Was lots of fun putting it on. She helped me fit it, which in turn made me quite excited. So it took a little longer than I would have imagined. She had me masturbate 1 last time in order to get things to settle. I was finally able to slide the cage on and she locked me in. I have to say it feels pretty good. Not sure how long we'll go this first try as we didn't set a time goal or anything. The feeling of knowing I can't play with my cock anymore is surreal. I notice I get a little excited then relax pretty fast and so far everything seems to be holding good and feels secure. Hopefully things hold and no adjustments are needed so I can keep it on as long as I can. Definitely feels much different than the silicone one I had previously. I am so glad I took this step and look forward to where this takes our relationship. (and my sexual appetite)
48 hrs in and not too bad overall. A few minor adjustments to help with comfort and fit. Got to please my kh once too. Maybe I'll get released soon then start a longer lock up. Who knows. I do feel quite comfy in the device and am getting used to it.