i am so confused. I told my gf tonight that I need action tonight and she laughed and said I don’t think so. So I said then I will probably masturbate tonight when she falls asleep or in the morning when I go in the shower. So she was like “go put on your cage”. That was the first time she mentioned the cage in like a month. So I said “really?” “Are you serious” She’s like “yeah but you won’t” I said “I will if you want and your serious” She didn’t say anything. So I said “do you want me to” She’s like “no” So now I’m totally confused and no sure about anything.
That had nothing to do with it. She was accommodating and you spit in her face. My suggestion? Put it on, hand her BOTH keys, apologize and thank her. But that’s my solution.
Geez. You want your hand held? Put it on and be awake with coffee ready when she rises, give her BOTH keys, apologize and thank her.
I’m just so surprised she brought it up. She’s never into it much. So I was shocked thought she was joking.
Honestly, I probably shouldn’t have fed into his stroke material, but he didn’t sound so pitiful in his very first post. Perhaps he’ll surprise us and be for real. Perhaps I’ll sprout wings and fly to the moon.
I think you just second guessed yourself right out of a key holder. I get that it was out of the blue, and you didn’t know how to react, but if you want her to be your kh(which I be read in your posts), when she asks you to put it on it’s pretty obvious you should have just put it on. I hope she isn’t discouraged and gives it another shot.
I think @Blue Moon offered you some very good advice. She obviously in some way likes the idea or she would not have mentioned. You might considering taking advantage of it if you truly desire chastity.
If you are in this site you obviously want to be in chastity. If you spend any time reading some of the posts you would realize you have a woman that wants to be your KH. How many posts do read of guys who do self caging because they don’t have a KH? If she tells you to put on your cage why even question, just do it and then thank her!
I am locked, for the most part, 24/7. The rare times I have been unlocked for other than her pleasure or maintenance/cleaning I have never hesitated when told to present myself to be locked. If you want her to take control...OBEY without question!