Mistresses decided the subs avatar on here

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  1. Life_is_a_lesson
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    I think its a great idea. To have your mistress pic your avatar.
     
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    Very true it also sounds fun..
     
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    I like this thread and was going to partcipate. Rather than simply issue an avatar I'd like to know a something about the person I was chosing it for. I had a look at the profiles of those who were wanting one chosen and didn't get much inspiration. May I suggest that if you'd like an avatar chosen you include in your post 3 interesting facts about yourself and your claim to fame/ infamy?
     
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    Thank you so very much Miss_Red_Dragon I hope that the subs will post what you require and we will see new avatars to please the Mistresses on here.
     
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    Miss_Red_Dragon A girl can never have too many padlocks!

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    Thank you ashplaything, mine was merely a suggestion but really when you have seen one locked cock you have seen them all
     
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    Yes Miss I fully understand, however, for us single subs it can be difficult to know what picture to use and can think that if we show our locked cocks it shows potential Mistresses we are serious about chastity (that was my thinking anyway Miss) .
     
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    I can understand that thinking, I do much prefer the avatar you are currently displaying though. If I wanted to see a pic of your locked cock, which tbh I can't think why I would unless I was holding your keys, then I would look at your profile :)
     
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    Maybe its just me being prudish (that would be a first!), but I can't imagine anything more off putting than for a prospective Domme to be presented with a pic of manbits before she even knows the person.

    Maybe thats because mine just isnt very nice to look at though :( :p
     
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    I would be honoured to have my avatar chosen by someone :)

    Taking on board the previous comment about the facts / claim to infamy.

    1. I'm Scottish
    2. I smile every time (almost) that I press "submit" when typing in passwords on websites
    3. I love an occasional gin

    Claim to infamy is I'm hopeless at chastity and have thrown out every device I've ever owned.

    Thanks for reading and hopefully picking a new pic for me :)
     
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    #35 maid_carrie, Oct 26, 2013
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    @krambus Your avatar is pretty good as it stands I would say, as it lends to that air of mystery about you :p

    Good luck on getting a new one, nonetheless. ;) I see you are the first to actually do as @Miss_Red_Dragon asked - so hopefully your wish will be fulfilled!
     
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    I would be eternally grateful if a Mistress would chose my avatar for me.
    1. I am the strong silent type.
    2. I consider myself a loner.
    3. I love old cars.

    My claim to infamy is that as far as chastity is concerned I have no will power and need help with motivation.
     
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    #37 Mascara^Snake, Oct 28, 2013
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    I would only attempt to choose an avatar for someone whom I was familiar with.
    Otherwise it's just a random picture selection.
     
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    I think it'd be interesting if cock shot avatars were banned, except for any ladies who wanted to use one. Men could only post them in albums or if relevant to a discussion (such as talking about a device, etc.). I get the sense that while they're used to it, most of the women here would prefer not having to look at them.
     
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    I'm with Billus on this point. Caged "cock" cartoons are fun, but actual pics of penises...... hmmmmm........ save for the albums?
     
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    Ok so I was guilty of having a boy bits avatar to begin with I now have a beautiful one chosen for me which is 1000% nicer and much more me and I love it .
    So no more willy pic avatar yes could support that as there are a lot of lovely Mistresses on here .
    However it would mean giving them control off your profile which I found funny to begin with but now I am very happy to do as I respect her .
    Xxx wendy
     
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    Im in total agreement , thank you Billus.
     
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    Hmm - I understand the sentiment expressed but this does smack of bully boy tactics by a select group of self appointed censors on the forum.

    Will people start to be ignored if they don't comply? Or will those who have a conforming avatar get more likes for inane posts just for conforming?

    Just my early morning thoughts :)
     
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    I do agree that banning such avatars would not be appropriate at all.
    Speaking for myself, just a few less of them would be a breath of fresh air.
     
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    Well, let's explore this a bit. You have a large group of men who declare themselves as submissive and willing to follow the directives of some most all women, especially on this site. Even to the point of allowing said women to choose avatars for the men. But if dick pics are not allowed, as per the wishes of the women, it's 'bully boy tactics'?

    Some of the women might consider that topping from the bottom. At any rate, I don't think you get to have it both ways. As for enforcement, I don't know how that would work out.

    My point was to show that a) if you let other people choose your avatar, don't complain if you don't like it, and b) I don't think most of the men here realize that showing off your floppy bits in avatars does not impress the women. I do know that many men are astounded by that, and would happily enjoy it if the women showed off their naughty bits. So they have a hard time believing that women generally don't appreciate strange penises in their face.

    I have an album with photographs of my cock if anyone wants to look at it. But not in my avatar.
     
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    Having one's avatar selected by an informed lady is a privilege. Her preferences are then the first thing a male sees on logging in to the site.

    Entirely as it should be.

    G.
     
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    I too agree entirely.

    As a heterosexual male I didn't join the site to be confronted with other blokes' bits. Surely such images can be sought in the Albums section, if required.

    G.
     
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    now that I have an avatar that a wonderful Mistress has picked out for me, which I think embodies how I would describe myself in picture form.
     
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    @charger i'm glad you got one chosen for you :)
     
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    thanks so am I
     
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