Miss now really in charge.

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    Hi all fellow Kinksters, I have been practising chastity for the last 9 months, on and off at first, couldn't get comfortable with the cb6000, things stepped up a notch when I purchased my first metal cage ,Wow what a game changer .
    I found i was much more comfortable and could wear it for days going into weeks.
    About two months ago I finally plucked up the courage and showed my wife, at she was really shocked and not in a good way.
    After several weeks of me wearing and doing everything to show her she was my Miss , cleaning, foot rubs ,redoing the garden, and anything she asked for and just being a much more loving husband, as well as servicing her needs in the bedroom, all while being locked. She was much more a ease with me being locked albeit self locked.
    Miss promised we would play this morning Sunday 26/9, but woke with a bleeding nose and didn't feel up to it, mind you I had eaten her pussy to orgasm the day before.
    Normally in pre chastity days I would have pouted and been moody all day, however today I just gave her a ,kiss and a hug , cooked her breakfast and was not fussed.
    An hour later after her shower ,she emerged from the bedroom and stated she had hidden the keys to my cage and would only give them back in an emergency.
    No time frame was discussed , Miss just said I'm in charge now ,don't ask to be unlocked. !
    What an amazing feeling and somewhat Surreal now realising i now have no control over my chastity, exciting, and scary for what's lies ahead. This is what I wanted, now I've got it. Miiss realises how good it is for me to be locked. And doesn't want me returning to my bratty pre chastity days.
     
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    Hopefully your wife is growing to appreciate the benefits available to her.

    If that is true, I'm sorry to tell you that some of those benefits may be things that you did not have in mind.

    (On the other hand: I doubt that you will mind.) :p
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Another satisfied customer, so I hope you enjoy it, I doubt turning back is a viable option now
     
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    Seems like you're ready for it. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    There is THAT point when you loose control and she willingly takes it. Those keys disappear and you get that it is now real.

    Recognize that she is very, very special. It sounds like you have done a credible job of treating her very well without whining or making demands. It paid off. Congratulations!
     
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    Looks like you did everything right. Hope it stays that way for you. I'm hoping to get my girlfriend to the same point
     
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    Thanks, Miss is generally fairly vanilla, but understands me and has an open mind . I will continue not to push things along with any outrageous demands just play it cool and see how it progresses.
     
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    Thats how I will be trying it wth my GF.
     
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    Good luck.
     
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    Thanks
     
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    Thanks We had another chat tonight, Miss is loving the better communication and attention she is getting, I'm loving it too, the completely different feeling you have being locked up and not Having access to the key is intoxicating. CHASTITY IS FANTASTIC.
     
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    It seems we're about the same place, but I may be a little ahead of you.

    My Bride proudly wears her key on an anklet everyday. A morning routine when she gets up, is I put the anklet on her, kiss it, and worship her foot for a few seconds. Morning bliss!!

    I asked to be re-locked on my birthday back in July. I asked for 9-15 orgasms over the year as an extended birthday present. I've had 2. She's vanilla. Very vanilla. I told her about the concept of Locktober yesterday. She rolled her eyes. She didn't say "not doing it", but also didn't say "We're doing it"

    We will see....
     
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    Youve not left her long to look into it though. I told my wife about 6 weeks ago, and have worked towards it.
     
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    My key just disappeared, ,yes I would love to see it on a chain on her neck( Miss has big Boobs ) so a key resting on her cleavage would be fantastic,
    No date for release has been talked about yet or if orgasms with be forthcoming, , thought I'd want and see what Miss wants. I've been locked now for 30 days , I'm happy to continue servicing her needs into the future.
     
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    I guess I misspoke.
    To give some context. We did chastity for about 9 months starting in September 2019, and continued until covid hit.

    started back in late June this year.

    back in 2019, I probably and almost definitely overwhelmed her.

    what I should’ve said about was “I reminded her about locktober”. She had heard the concept before. I think she’s still in a mode of “why do you want to do this”. She gets the benefits for her. Not sure she understands I get benefits too.
     
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    It took my Wife quite a while to get over the guilty feelings of denial, now it gets her hornier :) and there’s no going back
     
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    It's a process and takes time for sure. I've been locked 24x7 sine late June with 2 PIV and 1 HJ.

    She hasn't been orally worshipped since early August. I've offered many times. She's not interested. She isn't a very sexual person and quite honestly, doesn't think about it a lot. Since she doesn't think about it herself, she has to try and actively remember to participate with me.
     
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    Was promised we would play last night, came home after having some drinks for a neighbours 50th Instead Miss decided it would be better to sit on the lounge and watch reality TV.. I was happy to stay locked and just service her but somehow the TV seemed a more appealing option for Miss.
    Oh well there is always tomorrow.! Sometimes the lack of interest is astounding.
     
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    I know I’m lucky to have a wife with a high sex drive, almost as high as mine! We had a little lull a few years ago which turned out to be hormone issues for both of us, we both got that remedied with testosterone. Now we’re both like teens again :)
    Of course I spend at least a couple weeks a month locked in a cage, but whatever lol
     
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    I’m so glad it’s all working out for you! Good luck on your journey.
     
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