Hi, so I'm struggling to put lube on with the device still on, after a whole day and night of wearing it the lube wears off. Or when I go for a shower and bath it'll come off then. Trying to get the lube everywhere isnt really working as afterwards over if my whole crotch is lubed the ring still starts to burn where there isn't any lube. I know I have the right size as I used to have one too big and it'd slip bit this one is nice and snug with good circulation still. Any advice?
Use a thicker lube for one when I used to lube I used coconut oil. The good part is that after time you won’t have to lube your ball skin will get stronger and not require the lube. According to my body.
You shouldn’t be leaving lube on your skin, try things like Neosporin… aquaphor… diaper rash creams etc… You are going to end up with a bad rash if you continue to put lube on your skin, let it sit there with a ring rubbing you all day.
When I bought it the instructions was to use a bit of lube on the ring and maybe the inside of the cage to help get it on that's why I did it haha. Never heard about coconut oil or moisturizer at all lol. Thanks everyone's been a massive help
I'm relatively new at this since I recently started special training with a mistress. On my fourth day in submission she took me to a vey high end sex store and we picked out a cage...steel. The sales girl said it would be better than pLastic. I was caged that night..she did the whole ritual. I had to put the cock ring on myself. Then she handcuffed me and hooked my cuffed wrists to a hook on a post in her den. She put lube on me then stroked my cock enough to get it a bit hard, and as soon as it stated to grow she put the cage on. I have to admit that it was not at all unpleasant in fact being caged is a turn on. For lube I use KY. When either I or my mistress puts me in the cage I-we always put a generous dose of lube on my cock and then it slides right in. This is especially necessary if you are starting to get hard and want to get the cage on before you have a full-blown boner. I also noticed something else on the third time I was out and had to put the cage back on. I had a very difficult time getting into the cock ring and once I did it was very uncomfortable. That night when she unlocked me to take it off I discovered I had the wrong size ring. So after I had struggled to get it off I only then figured it out. I now use the medium size and it works well. She has a harness I'll have to start wearing. It's for a butt plug and either a cock cage or a cock ring. We both looked the harness over and decided the large ring would work. I'll know tomorrow. Another thing that is essential if you are a submissive and helpful if you are not..that is shaving. I wear nylons and pantyhose so I shave my legs but I never had much hair on them anyway. My mother used to say I was born half girl. A couple nights after my first couple days in the cage my step sister, who is my mistesses partner in my training came over and shaved me from the waste down. It made getting the cage on much easier and it looks much better under panties, especially sheer ones.