Hi, just curious in regards to those who have been in chastity with a key holder long term, what changes (good and bad) have you noticed in yourself and in your relationship?
You will find lot of posts on this topic Longer the lock-up, more the advantages in terms of domination, relationship, love, caring, etc etc etc The very fact that more n more people are entering into this lifestyle and rarely people are quitting; It is obvious that chastity brings more pleasure than problems
From years of experience and speaking only for myself, i haven't personally had or have even read about any negative aspects regarding long term enforced chastity. For myself, it has made me a much better human being / male. The list of positive changes is endless. More loving, caring, respectful, understanding, devoted, generous, attentive and productive just to name a few positives. i can't speak for my Owner of course, but i see how Her confidence, free spirit and joy keeps beautifully growing.
@ Mistress_Sonia's_slave, Touche! Couldn't have said it better myself. The easiest part is the relationship as that only gets better. The biggest obstacle to long term is finding the right device for you to wear long term.
Although in an LDR, I have found that I truly enjoy this relationship more than any before it. My confidence and enjoyment has grown tremendously as I have found just how much nicer it is having someone who looks to my needs and comfort first.
Hopefully it suits both parties. The dominant one enjoys the attention and cosseting, the submissive enjoys serving and the prospect of being reprimanded in appropriate ways.