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    Has anyone ever done a lock swap with another chastity sub? That is, you both agree to a certain amount of time, send each other a lock, and no keys, and lock the devices on. I figure get in touch via a picture once a week to verify they're still wearing the other person's lock, but easy enough to help those without interested keyholders.

    I'd be willing to try with someone else for a month or longer if there's interest.
     
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    i would be willing to give this a try
     
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    For those lacking a KH, this may be a workable alternative.
     
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    I would need a little more than just key holding. Maybe the three of us could each come up with weekly tasks to complete as we are locked. For the record I'm married but she enjoys when others have the control over me.
     
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    intresting, would be happy to explore this @JamesAll10
     
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    I think we would have to set some ground rules and punishments if guidelines weren't met. Any thoughts?
     
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    definetly there has to be repercutions for disobeying otherwise the hole thing loses its appeal, but first of how would this all go down?
     
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    I'm surprised that this arrangement hasn't been mentioned before. It seems ideal for those members who constantly ask for control.
     
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    indeed @Mistress B it makes good sence, everyone just has to be on the same page
     
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    I think it could work for swinging to all locks thrown in a bucket shake it up lock all cages and go find your key holder for the night
     
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    That's probably why, people completely go in the wrong direction and insert a fantasy when we are trying to achieve practical.
     
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    Very interesting idea :)
     
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    I was thinking each member gets in touch with his or her lock buddy directly so people's mailing addresses aren't out in total public.

    As for the micrologistics...I hadn't gotten that far LOL

    Maybe once a month anyone interested (and not currently locked) can enter their name into the bin, someone mates names up and each person gets in touch with the other directly through private message? I guess you're a little out of luck if you're lucky enough to have a device with an integrated lock, but for the folks who don't, and don't currently have a keyholder, this is a way to go.

    Maybe 25 days in (long enough prior to get keys into the mail) you can either both mutually agree to extend if it's worked out, or send each other keys and enter your names into the next available drawing.

    That's just off the top of my head.

    I'm not sure what other folks had in mind for other activities.
     
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    You could use one of the on-line punishment wheels for violations, duration, etc., if the participants can't reach a consensus on their own.
     
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    My thoughts are this:
    1) Each guy that wants to participate commits to a three week lock up to start.
    2) For any infraction additional time is added. You can hold your own key and do the honor system or we could use a program such as Carlilock/Emmalock.
    3) Each week you request the other chastised males to perform a task. Tasks can range from writing assignment, panties at times, butt plugs, only eating oats for a day or a simple timeout in the corner holding a penny against the wall. Obviously the more creative the better.
    4) We can then submit photos of the tasks being completed back to the forum or we can again do the honor system.
    5) I am sure we all have general limits so we can keep it basic to start and not go over all of them. If a task crosses a limit, you don't have to do it.
    6) We could also let the onlookers decide on tasks as well if we wanted.

    What do you think? I can start being locked up as soon as someone else commits.
     
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    @JamesAll10 this sound very good and well planned, not sure about the oats part however lol
     
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    Ha! I was trying to be creative! You in? Start today?
     
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    I'm not so sure about the tasks, but I'm up for an adventure I actually locked up last night. I can ask the Mrs to hide my key tonight.
     
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    Mrs hid my key this morning so we are set.
     
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    Ok, James and I are in until the 26th then. I knew I should have waited until this weekend to lock up lol
     
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    Woulda, shoulda, coulda. :p
     
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    Are we doing tasks? I'm up for it but I guess no one else is? Colleen1986? Do you have a suggestion?
     
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    I think you need to establish comfort levels. What may be in one person's wheelhouse, may seem tame or terrifying to another person. Perhaps starting a list of things you would "like" to do or be required to do and share the lists. See where there is common ground. Then establish The List for those playing the game. The List items could be placed on a randomized wheel, and each person spins and wins. Just a few random thoughts.
     
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    I also have the complication of being out of the house for 12 hours a day. Life interrupts fun lol
     
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    Well it was supposed to be simple stuff but oh well
     
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