Well I have a partially Dom wife. She knows I love it and often need to be dominated and punished or I "mis behave". Today I had a long day at work feeling sick from a cold. Then I have an online business... fun fun. Ugh.. I have a virtual mistress software that assigns tasks daily and if/when I fail to complete each chore on time it issues Punishments. Today I am feeling so sick I can barely function to work my online business. But after reading a few posts here I am feeling more turned on and feel there is a good chance I will complete a few chores. More later... I'm feeling sick and have work/chores to complete.
Thanks for the well wishes. Check this Ted talks video on masturbation. This very hot chick/ PHD, goes over the healthy aspects of masturbation. AND , also why we have issues with it internally. Chastity is kinky and turns me on... but I feel there is an psychological aspect that stems from this social critisism of masturbation. Not complaining... it just feels like a "aaaa haaaa" moment.
I haven't watched the video yet, I will later though. I just want to point out that while some sections of society are still disgusted with men masturbating and that is behind their wish to control it, many are not. My Wife is a case in point. She never had a issue with me masturbating and actually enjoyed watching me and sometimes joined in. The enjoyment she gets from the control of my masturbating is not to do with disgust but to do with the way that control changes me. Essentially she likes the way I react to her after i have had a period of a few weeks without an ejaculation. There is a remarkable difference in my response. The slightest touch has me in raptures and my groans of arousal in turn get her aroused. She also gets turned on by the power she has over me, the fact that she has told me I am not allowed to masturbate and she gets to say when and how I have an orgasm. This enjoyment of the control is why she pushes me to go months without an orgasm rather than weeks, as there is no increase in the levels of my response after those first few weeks. I still don't understand why some men masturbate to chastity porn, the irony of this is stark. All I know is if I told my Wife that masturbating was good for me she would say eating brussel sprouts is good for me and I don't do that either!