After talking with the wife for the past several weeks about enforced chastity / tease and denial. She instructed me tonight to put on my cage infront of her and to give her the keys. We have been discussing this for sometime, at first she didn't understand the kink or her role as a KH. Well I guess shes comfortable with her role now. I'm locked and she's sound asleep. I'll keep you all posted.
Maybe you could stop calling her "the wife" and say "my wife" if you seriously want her to act as your key holder. Good luck.
Congrats. And in following on Lester's sound advice: if you read the pages here you will find tons of stories of guys that begged their wives to hold their key's, only to bug them constantly for release or attention, or whatever - ultimately turning them off. I got very lucky and my Queen loves it - but most don't. So find ways to make her feel special, in control, happy. It could mean chores but it might not. It could mean servicing her but some find that offputting. It will take communication (when she wants it) to sort that out. But changing your mind set and using all the new hormones and emotions to show her you care: with your eyes, your touch, your words - I haven't read too many failures from this. All the best!
Its been two days now and I have to admit not to bad, except for the occasional nighttime erection. Still no teasing from my wife but she did contact a girlfriend of hers and told that she had me wearing a chastity cage. I almost died right there. Lol, that was humiliating. She knew her friend is into the BDSM scene and would get a kick out this. My wife, K/H also opened a profile on this site. Ms.Indeed.
After several days wearing my cage, a total mind fuck my the way. My K/H came out of the bedroom, dressed hot ass hell holding her paddle we named the punisher, and instructed me to bend over the bed as she thought I needed a little reminder of who's in control in this relationship. I asked what did I do wrong? She pointed to a glass on the counter I had left out. She likes everything in its place. I nformed her that I had cleaned our cars, did all the laundry and scrubbed the bathroom today. She just said, "your only making it worse" When she uses that tone I shut the fuck up. She tore my ass up, she usually just paddles me 3 or 4 times, not this night I lost count after the tears started running down my face. She then took my cage off and handed me a penis sleeve extender, told me to put it on that she needed to get laid. I was excited and eager to please her. She had me lying on my back and she mounted me cowgirl style, she started pumping her hips and even with this sleeve on I wasnt able to last long and filled it with cum. She looked at me and just said "really that quick " Me being a smart ass couldn't resist and said"I got mine" That was a big mistake. She took the sleeve off my penis and feed me my cum making sure I ate every drop. Then told me I will be begging to eat my cum the next time I get sex which will not be in the foreseeable future. While I was putting my cage back on she finished herself off with her favorite vibrator. She told she was going to start looking for a friend with benifits. View attachment 68451 View attachment 68451