introducing myself, from Belgium

Hi all,

i am already member since 2018, but never wrote something. Bought a cb3000 in those days, but untill couple of days ago, never wore it longer then couple of hours.
To give you the background, my gf and I live several hours away from eachother, and due to her personal situation, we can't meet very often (yet).
We both have a kinky side. And untill now, our playing from distance was me locked up, playing with buttplug on her command,....
Or she tells me to start rubbing it..tell me hwn to finish , etc..

About two weeks ago, she told me not to wear boxers anymore. And each time i get up, i need to rub a bit my cock. which made me sooo arroused, and horny, but wasn't allowed to finish myself.
After two days, in the morning while walking my dog, while on the phone having a normal conversation with her, she said,: "start stroking , i want you to cum in your pants." Now we are not in a D/s relation. We always have been playing a bit around. So although telling her I am in public road, i got instantly hard. The idea just was just wow. And so I did, while walking around in town ( I tried to stay in roads with not too much people which isn't soo difficult thanks to the lockdown) , i stroked myself till i came.

fast track till last saturday. In the morning, when I woke up, decided to put the cage on. That day while again walking my dog , i was messaging my gf and occasionally told her, btw, I am in cage today.
She replied: Good. You don't take it off anymore till we meet again in person. My direct reaction was: NO, that could be months still. On which she replied: Do it or you will see. Again I said NO (but was getting aroused as fuck). Her reply came : Obey and things will be good, if not bare the consequences. This reply gave me such a painfull attempt to get hard but at th same time blew my mind. And i replied. Ok , i will do as you say Ma'am(how i call her when playing).
The same day we have set some rules, I can take it off every morning to wash properly ( uncircumcised) on which she put a condition; I have to get hard and edge. Then cool down, ice pack and lock myself again. (And for sports or riding bike we need to figure out.)

So since Saturday I am locked and let's see what will happen.....

Nice meeting you all !