Love the site, it was a great resource in deciding to pick up my first cage, currently stay locked daily but my wife/key holder is really against overnight wear. This is definitely a journey and I am at the beginning but we shall see where we end up
If she doesn't want you to wear it overnight, then don't... it's ok. Do what works best for you! I know people on the site where "chastity devices" are a very small part of their FLR & chastity in general. If you want to talk sometime shoot me a message, sometimes it is nice to have someone to a non-bias party to just listen.