Interesting article on why women moan during sex

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    Thanks for sharing, it made me grin - but on the other hand: being in chastity means, one can moan without having sex! :p:p:p
     
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    What a good way of spending your time at university. Probably took a lot of research and hours of interviews. Plenty of evenings doing practical study !

    However pound to a penny the reason women make a racket is the geezer on top is putting some effort in.

    Xx Wendy
    ( Wait until @Mistress Jules reads that )
     
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    Indeed, a very interesting article. I especially love this bit - "Women understand that moaning is a turn-on for guys, and many women ultimately enjoy it because they've made an effort to push a little beyond what comes naturally,"

    It's not that we have made an effort - it's because since time immemorial men have used women for their sexual needs. Women realised that if we wanted them to hurry up and finish then encouragement was the quickest way to to it. What guy hasn't finished off with a smug smile on his face thinking how good he was because the female moaned.

    Porn has perpetuated the myth that female moans and groans mean she is enjoying herself, therefore the digital generation think that is what is supposed to happen.

    How many of us have made love in silence due to sleeping children or relatives? I am sure both parties enjoyed these efforts just as much without the sound effects.

    It's time we stopped using porn as a benchmark and learned about reality.
     
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    So funny you said the bit about being quiet when family or children are in the house. When I moved out of my parents house long ago it took me a while to actually feel comfortable making audible sounds during sex, it's almost like I had to make an effort to make noise because I'd essentially trained myself to be silent lol.
     
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    I was once shagging this young lass (I was a young lad at the time) and I'd noticed previously that she was a bit 'vocal'. On this occaision it seemed to me that she was being exceptionally vocal. The awareness of her noise was I think exacerbated by the fact that we were in a very small tent, in a very small family festival campsite, and it was 4 in the afternoon and everyone was sitting around drinking tea. I was so embarrassed that I asked her to be more quiet (to her shocked surprise).
    I actually found the noise quite disturbing, as much for the fact that it was putting me off my stride as much for the social setting.
    She said that she was just as happy being silent but thought blokes liked the noise. Tbh I did like the noise, just not quite that much.
     
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    For my part i always find the reason my wife moans is that as we are lying there she tends to look around the room and spot some of the jobs i was supposed to have done are still awaiting completion! I must be doing something wrong!
     
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    Snap! :)
     
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    the main problem we have always had in my parents spare room is that the bed there is the noisiest bed on the planet. Try doing it without moving any loud creeking bed springs.
     
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    thai chi sex!
     
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    Squeeky bed at parents' house problem solution: The bedroom floor.
    God rest their souls.
     
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    Some women are audible during sex some are not. Moans, shrieks etc (of pleasure that is) can be generally interpretted as a form of encouragement and a fairly reliable indication to keep on whatever it is you are doing. Some people just enjoy being audible during sex, who am I to knock that.

    Not every woman is comfortable with giving actual directions which are far more useful.
    I can't think why after all you're probably both naked and you have your tongue in her pussy or even her anus and she has the key to your CD (and all that implies) ..so really what is there to be embarrassed about at this point? But people are odd like that, no not just women, so learn to live with it.
     
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    If my SO was quiet I'd think I was doing it wrong.
     
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    I have never really thought about why I make noise.
    I just know most of the time I make a lot of it. When it's not good hubby knows. I am not good at hiding dissapointment. And terrible at faking it.
    We have 3 kids so we know about not making noise. But I know they have deffintaly heard noises.
    Now I don't recall a lot of the noises but I know there is variety
    Sometimes I make noises that I know will please hubby more than others, but I don't think I have ever made noise just to try to get him to hurry up.
    Either was noise or no noise I'm usually having a good time . No noise means we are being sneaky and that in it's self if a turn on and noise means there is no one around. And we'll that leads to all sort of delicious fun.
     
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