In chastity, are you aroused differently when you look at your partner?

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    Yes, I don't think it would be half as interesting if it wasn't the case.
     
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    I’ve been thinking about my own answer to OP question, trying to make it more articulate than “yes, but I can’t quite put my finger on it” when I read the above.

    @Tom Allen nailed it for me and that’s how I wish I could have said it.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    Not having any sexual contact with my wife for several years now, I notice I am attracted to more women than in the past when we were active. Being caged adds to this aspect in some ways. I find I miss erections when caged, but I enjoy the restrictive feeling and loss of control and freedom.
    To answer your question specifically, I believe I am attracted to all parts of a woman's body pretty equally. Your imagination plays a big part in this and there are many things I imagine doing with quite a number of women in my life, but of course I can't in reality. I do find these thoughts very arousing. I'm not sure if I am to the point of giving up entirely and only focusing on the arousal just yet. Time will tell.
     
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    Do you find that when you’re looking at other women now you are admiring the features that reminds you of your wife?
    I’ll appreciate a good ass when I see one, but I find that if it’s not exactly how my wife’s would look it’s not as attractive to me.
     
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    Yes and no. I am reminded of my wife if I see similar features, but since I self lock I do not have the association between the lock and her so much. I would expect a stronger reaction if she held my key.
     
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