Ha, or am I? Bit of a contradiction here - I've been identifying myself as a dom male for years, but recently I've grown more and more obsessed with the idea of giving up control and submitting myself to some use and abuse - I have no idea where this has all come from, but I think I'm just about ready to take it to a new level. I'm 41, a skinhead by choice, single, fit (42 chest, 32 waist) and have a seriously cheeky smile - I might post pictures once I find my feet and get to grips with this place. So, hi
Welcome to the Mansion. Hope you find your feet soon, I'm sure you'll find the site more than friendly enough.
welcome guilty! you are not alone. i am a total sub but i have spanked Mistress when She ordered me to. Mistress is a switch, about 95% Domme but She was a sub for years before discovering Her true inner self.
Welcome Guilty. I think it's a natural transition for a man to go from Dom to sub. As we get older our hormones tend to wain a little and our sensitive side tends to come out more. For years you see your sub have all the fun while you are having to take all of the responsibility for how things go in the scene. You think, "Boy wouldn't it be nice to just kick back and enjoy the delicious treatments I've been dishing out."