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    This is the type of conversation that can really make a difference, it is not meaningless like so many others, I have my share of good and bad ones, happily more entertaining ones than the lackluster ones.
    Am I a lucky girl?
     
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    Difficult setting you have here. For me, grown up in a area very Catholic, this is a quite a task.

    Prayers and monk does have a lot of human contact because it use their job. Also they often very in touch with people that really got deep problems and feelings to manage.

    I think you will learn a lot here. Learn to talk aged read between the lines.

    Keep on and I wish you both luck. May the Lord be with you both. Because not God does say that you should stay chaste it's the church
     
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    I'm late to reading this thread but find myself fascinated. What a situation... it could (should) be a book or a movie! I can imagine your conversations must be a little different to the usual D/s discussions. I'm wondering if your monk friend might be interested in joining our community and sharing his thoughts (anonymously of course). Thanks for sharing @TheMinistressGrace. One of the most interesting discussions I think we have ever had here - please keep us posted as things progress!
     
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    Thank you! This is very encouraging!
    I've already suggested the use of the forum but it's one of those blocked URLs monks cannot access...

     
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    Hes a bit of a naughty monk in he.
     
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    Hello all,
    20 days have passed. And for as much as I've tried all my best to avoid it, my monk is starting to have desires for me. As a KH, I know this happens frequently and it's all part of it: the teasing, the denial, the frustration... although I know that not one of these ingredients has been brought to this relationship, the cage gets you there regardless.
    I'm not disturbed as I'm very much used to it and he's been keeping this within a very delicate language/imagery but I shared because I know this is what many of you, dirty minds, were waiting for.
    G*
     
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    Usual and expected, as you said, the cage is our presence felt and a constant remainder of the Mistress.
     
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    Surprising update about the monk:
    So, 2 days ago he asks me if I can allow him to remove his belt as a gift for his name-day. I had had a bad day, so I thought I could make it better by making someone else's day better (yeah, give up, I'm not the kind of domme we're all so used to) and approved. I told him he'd be chasting regardless, as the belt is a mere symbol, and I carry that symbol for him.
    His name-day was today.
    I come back home and I read his daily digest, about how he's so thankful of the gift I gave him, how he spent a happy day where, whenever he felt like deviating, he'd be thinking of me as his belt: the cock-blocking factor (which is obviously pretty ethic here). As such, he called me his headmistress of chastity... and by looking at a picture of her (me) he reporting starting to lust her to a point that he needs to run wearing the belt again, that belt that it's me and that thru me, it has become the necessary object for both chasting and sinning.
     
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    nice update, really interesting
     
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    whats a name day mean please. i have not hear of it.
     
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    a name day is a feast day for the saint it is named after
     
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    Tell him you're only an intercessor and you want him to transfer his devotion towards a patron saint of chastity (I recommend St Agnes of Rome) and to make you her agent.
     
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    I don’t act on behalf of what I don’t believe in. And would why I step down from what looks like an earned position to favour anybody else, let alone a figure I don’t recognize?
    The monk and I are clear about the fact that all things clerical need to stay out of our relationship; any other option will result in immediate end from my side.


     
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    thank you very much for telling me.
     
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    I know his faith is something you don't believe in, but HE knows it's against his vows to lust after you, he's behaving badly by sharing those thoughts with you and he knows it.
    I truly do not mean to offend.
     
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    While this is really interesting, it's not surprising that he's developed carnal feelings. Chasity (in my limited experience) doesn't dampen desire, it helps focus it. I don't want to speak for everyone but I think that's why most of us are here.
     
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    Oh I understand, it's just weird to me as a Christian reading about this guy skirting the rules while to the outside it looks like he's being obedient. But he's not mine so it's really none of my business.
     
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    I guess there's one thing we shan't forget: a monk is a man.
    A man NEEDS to spunkt, physiologically. Therefore a monk is not different.
    Does he watch porn while he unloads (when he's unlocked)? Probably. And not my business.
    Now it is.
    And yes, he's being obedient to me, which at this point and from my non-christian point of view, it's to me way more important than his vows.
    And I want him to confess to me, even if it's lust over one of my pictures; and I prefer this and discuss about this with him than let him be cheated on by unscrupulous cynical findommes like it has already happened.
     
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    The monk has been writing me poems.
    Delicate, passionate words with highly devoted imagery that, I admit, have not let me indifferent and on various level.
    We are on chastity day 32 today. I know now I could have him do anything as his will is totally bent to my will.

    I would have loved to translate some of his poetry and share it with you but Emlalock has fucked up and all the messages exchanged in the last month are gone for good.

    Wish you all a peaceful Sunday
    G*
     
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    Oh noooo, what a bad luck!
     
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    i like poems i do. i cant write them but i like reading them.
     
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    Will you be able to get fresh copies from him? It would seem a shame to simply lose them.
     
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    While I was having the morning check of my Emlalock wearers today, to my most colossal surprise I came across something disturbing: from 39 weeks to go, I read a very disappointing Time's up.
    Now, I checked the timeline roughly and it looks like he got infinitely lucky with voting and what not and I was sure he hadn't noticed yet. So I let him know. And simply ask him what he wants to do.

    A couple of hours after I receive a message of pure despair. He tells me how destroyed he feels and he's afraid to be abandoned! That he will do whatever I ask and I can ask anything as long as we don't put an end to this.
    We all know there will be a moment where this situation will stop being sustainable. And that most of the times, cagers disappear after release (which is somewhat good) too.

    I wonder if this will be such a case or whether he will refuse release or accept and beg to come back after it anyway.
     
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