I locked up a monk

"no shit". That's what you get when you lock up a monk who's a philosopher (I prefer not to disclose on his name, but I would like so much!!)

 

"Yes, the days without a belt are fine, but you know during the night there are problems with the alarms that are made by a desire to wear the cage. Bird wants to enter the cage ...? I always feel the belt, the skin that gives me this impression. You are my help. I do not do this because you said that now there are days of rest. But my body is still full of strength, maybe something has changed because normally it is already finished during the night, but now I wake up with the thought of wearing the cage.
I'm glad you're interested in my mood. I would like to do you good, to cheer your heart. I would like to kiss your hands, your lips, your cheeks, hug you tightly looking into your eyes admiring and adoring your beauty. Although the cage is removed, you are still my lovable, adorable and reputable belt. The session is over but I am obedient to you, I feel yours, I am moved by the phrase 'kisses your Grace' especially the word 'yours'. You are mine and I am yours. I'm happy to be with you.
I fraternally embrace
your servant and boy"
Poorly google translated but you get the message.

Have a great weekend folks. Monk will be locked again next week.

 

Hello all,
this is what I think it'll be last update, at least for some time.
So the monk got free after 5 Weeks 12 Hours 13 Minutes. This was a couple of weeks ago.
He said he doesn't want to be on Emlalock anymore nor wear the device. But he still wants interaction with me.
He states that I give him the force to resist temptation (but we all know I've been his main temptation till now) and that he doesn't want to be caged anymore as the device itself has been setting his mind on sex more than it'd do without.
He wants to feel free to finally respect his vows, just. With my help.
Let's see how this goes - so, yes, on second thought, this might not be the last update

G*

 

So, all fairy tales have an epilogue and this one, more tale than fairy, also has its own.

The monk removed his profile from Emlalock around the time of my previous update. He states to have thrown away the 3 cages he bought and he's sworn to have decided to keep himself pure and let go of all dirty fantasies - I want to believe it's true and in full honesty, what he does once unlocked is not my business.
We keep on writing to each other but no more than twice a week. Every time he's so thankful for what I've done for him and he promises me to have understood thanks to my help.
Which is of course very satisfying for me.. the duality of having a monk respecting his own vows while I order others to cum when I say and to do to themselves the nastier possible stuff is a contradiction that excites and satisfies my need for power play. But that's another story.

This is my last update on the monk story. I look forward to another special lock up to share with you at first occasion.

G*

 

CBT, anal play and humiliating tasks are otherwise regularly enforced.

 

A long time has passed since the monk was locked up under my key, yet many have been asking for updates in the past months... so here you go.

The monk and I are still in touch it's not frequent of course, as he has totally disconnected - he says - from BDSM and related interests.
Every time, he tries to talk me into religion and Jesus and so on, while he knows that I'm no woman of faith and it's not a matter of convincing me into the Lord's verb: I was raised in the city that hosts the Vatican, so I've been fed with all of this for too long and no thanks, not for me.
At the same time though, it is so wonderful to read thru every time and rediscover simplicity, a pure awe for life and a sincere faith in others through his words. He's a man of church and a philosopher, which makes his ways more interesting than they were mere religious acts.

I see this as an uncommon friendship to cherish, as it always gives something to both parts: even without faith, or chastity cages in the middle, the exchange is still very precious for both of us. So I hope it'll goes on and on.

Thanks for taking the time of reading this
G*

 

He thinks FLR is limiting for the male. Don't forget Christianity is unfortunately blindly patriarchal and for a monk who has had no emotional relationship at all, that sounds like not feasible.

 

@PorkChamber: thank you for your kind words and for getting the meaning of the work I had/did with the monk - which was intense and not at all easy. WIth the occasion, I went back to some of our writings and reading them again threw me in a topspace, which I think it was one of the reasons why I took that up in the first place: the power of responsibility. And, as I became a new model of woman for him, I'd never use my power in a destructive way, it's not how I see chastity to be like and I felt like I was serving a greater good.
I'm a service domme, so this shan't sound weird coming from a top

@mir152: who cares?
Christianity, as well as any other religion, is like candy: feels good but the damage of the mind is irreparable, just like rotten teeth. Of course you can get a dental implant as easy as you can transition to a new cult: however, we should all remain genuine as nature made us.
I'm Italian (and from Rome, the city that hosts the Vatican and it's haunted by its influence( and come from a conservative family with thicker Christian values than attendance: and I can tell you it's all male based. In addition, do you really think the modern Christian goes for the Bible's precepts? Oh the world could be a better place, I'm sure!
And, John Paul II is 2 popes ago. Gotta get up-to-date in a world of old governors!!!

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