I feel that I gave her an incomplete gift...

Hey, guys.

First of all, I apologize for my bad English, but I'm Portuguese and I'm not very good at writing (or speaking) English ... and so I use the help of the translator many times

I would like to have your opinion/help on how to solve (if it has resolution) my small dilemma about chastity.

About three years ago I was filled with courage and introduced my enormous fetish/chastity fantasy to my wife. I think that as all women did not understand initially, but as it came from me, she undertook to try to understand the theme a little better, and ended up accepting a period of chastity as an experience.

I know that chastity, unfortunately, is very much based on the system of honor and commitment, however my wife eventually accepted the idea, but always told me that she did not feel very safe and erotic, because despite everything, she knows that if i really wnat, I can unlock myself (with more or less difficulty).

Besides, she doesn't appreciate her need to be committed to having to lunlock me every single day for hygiene reasons, because she feels that it breaks the logic of chastity.

This led me to try a high number of chastity devices to find out which one is best for me, within the market possibilities... and at the same time satisfied her, but with so much experience I ended up giving up chastity for some reasons.

Unfortunately, I'm not a very physically gifted man about the size of my penis. I believe I may be below average, and besides, I have a huge variation in size when I'm flaccid. In some cases, when I'm sitting or with my legs bent, it gets really small, as if it shrinks all in.

In addition I tried several cage models more closed and others more open. In the closed, by far the HT v4 nano was the best, however my wife does not be pleased for the need for imperious hygiene, and has to unlock me every day.

In the open, I ended up to try some models in plastic and steel and i ended up realizing that the model "black mamba" nub with the smallest wide ring was the most perfect ring for me, because when it placed with the locked cage i had a huge difficulty in being able to remove, however the cage is about 37mm internal width (which is immense for me) and in addition the gap between the cage and the ring is very small and becomes very uncomfortable.

... I did not experience this model with the thinnest ring or even the anatomical ring, because however I gave up.

A few days ago, my wife surprised me when she got back to the subject, asking me if I had ever found the right device, which made me realize that she liked it and gave me (again) motivation to find the right device and that it is to her complete pleasure.

Unfortunately, she don't appreciate full chastity belts, so my preference will have to fall only in the cages.

I wonder that a man with a smaller penis will have a harder time finding the right device! It seems to me that with a bigger penis, it becomes more difficult to remove from the cage, but am I wrong?

I'm small but I don't like the micro cages (or my wife)... and her little wish was for me to use a device that was really difficult to remove without the cage, and that i didn't have the need to withdraw daily for me to sanitize, and at the same time she like to see on my penis, and not like those "sissy" cages.

Is this a very big utopia for a man with a small penis and will the full chastity belt be my only option?

None of this has anything to do with being unfaithful, and in fact, I don't masturbate as often as that. I love making love to my wife, and I love the feeling of being hers entirely. She also does not have great desires for domination, but I realized that when i using the cage, she feels more woman, more confident and we end up much closer, almost as if we were boyfriends again, but with a huge secret between her legs.

However I feel that I gave her an incomplete gift but that she loved... And now I can't offer you the rest.