I have been into femdom since pretty much puberty and I am 56 now. I just recently got into chastity and convinced my wife to be my keyholder. I can't imagine being in chastity when I was in my 20s. It's difficult enough now, but back then I was so horny I think I would have lost my mind.
But in chastity surely the horniness reaches very high levels anyway, no matter what age. I believe I could have done it though I wouldn't have wanted to do it.
Personally I wish I had met Miss A much earlier than I did, and learned the benefits (and frustrations) of chastity, and a properly managed sex life with a superior female sooner. Chastity is one of the cornerstone rituals of our loving FLR. We advocate it for all couples, whether female led or not. For us the reduction in male ego problems, and the confidence gain in Miss A from the control that my chastity gives to her, have helped to create the incredible relationship which we now enjoy, and which is still evolving.
It feels like quite a few on here are more mature in years and have come to it later. I suspect it would be far more difficult in younger years. However, there do seem to be a few younger men on here. Good on them.
Beginning a lifestyle of chastity at 20 would be like visiting 31 Flavors the first time, choosing a single variety that you repeat every visit and never experiencing the other 30 flavors. You must try them all and thin them down to the one you don’t wish to do without, the one that makes your eyes roll to the back of your head.
I would have gone crazy at 21. I was so horny that I would masturbate up to 5 times a day and anywhere I could get some privacy. Shower, public toilets, plane toilets, the woods, etc. Hell, maybe it would have done me some good! Lol Army basic training was tough because there was little privacy so you either had to do it quietly in your bunk or on the toilet. I still managed.
My 20’s were a wild time of free love. Being lockedt than would have been very different and sexually frustrating. But who knows it might have been the greatest adventure their ever was. Being locked in my 50’s is great. If we only could go back.
My madam had me order my first cage when I was 22, and we played around with it for about 6 years, it was the last year of this we went 24/7, so I have been 24/7 for about 12 years, I have not had sex with my madam or with anyone for about 6 years, I was 40 this year, And I wouldn’t change a thing ether.
I have a high sex drive but my desires of submission would have me obey and be locked up if my Mistress ordered it at any age, but I still can't understand how many can cope without orgasm for so long, when owned and caged it doesn't take much to arrouse me and chaffing from straining at the cage is common for me
I was thinking about this very subject today. I’ve always wanted to be dominated in the bedroom so I know I would have submitted, but it would have driven me even more crazy than I am now.