Hubby's second thoughts on joining CM

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    #1 Keyholder For CSG, Sep 20, 2016
    I'll admit it that when my husband created the accounts for us here I thought it was kind of silly and I went along with it to make him happy. Since then, I've made friends here and learned a lot. I was doing so many things wrong now I know better.

    He told me that he doesn't like it that I'm using this forum so much. Silly boy. I asked him "isn't this what you wanted?". He king of made a grunting sound and walked off.

    Thanks for all the help and advice. I've gone from doing what my husband wanted me to do just to appease him to being able to actually become more assertive and in control. I'm liking how I feel now even though he's considerably more frustrated with me.

    Everyone says he'll be frustrated for a while but he'll eventually come around. I'm sure he will. Before even though he was locked up he was in control and still manipulated me to get his thrills one way or another. I still want him to enjoy this, but now it's my turn to enjoy this.

    Thank you everyone for helping me stop being a door mat and take charge.
     
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    #2 Jasmic68, Sep 20, 2016
    It does sound like he was thinking more about the fantasy of having you as his keyholder than the reality. I hope you enjoy getting him to the next stage, where he realises that having a fantasy is great but living it is better.
     
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    #3 Wendygirl, Sep 20, 2016
    Yep
    Very much Be careful what you wish for. Holds true all too often. But that is what makes it fun well may be not for him . Do we care nah !

    Xx Wendy
     
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    #4 Neok65, Sep 20, 2016
    My Mistress was a little slow to take total control at first....but she slowly took control a little bit at time ...now after 18 months, she is in complete and total control. it is now very clear to me, that i am her slave I will never have control again...she is a changed woman. So yes he should be careful what he wishes for!
     
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    #5 Joroincharge, Sep 20, 2016
    Spot on. You are quite right. You now have the control and can ensure he does as you tell him. So go for it. He needs the frustration - it will do him good big time. Sit back, let him simmer, and ENJOY!!!:):):):)
     
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    #6 Keyholder For CSG, Sep 21, 2016
    Thanks for the vote of confidence. With everyone's help I've learned that he was just using me like another of his sex toys. I let myself fall into that role because I wanted to make him happy, but I could never do enough. He wanted more and more every time we played. I wasn't getting anything out of it and he didn't respect me.

    He's the one who got himself pierced. He bought the device from Ms Lori. He put it on and gave me the keys and begged me to be his Keyholder.

    Well, now I'm learning what it means to be a Keyholder and I'm starting to enjoy it.
     
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    #7 Keyholder For CSG, Sep 21, 2016
    I love that some of you sent him comments on his recent posts of pictures of his manhood (boyhood is more like it).

    I asked him to read them aloud to me and he was so embarrassed. I love it, keep 'em coming! He always wants to be humiliated, but usually enjoys it too much. This was priceless.
     
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    #8 Thatgirl, Sep 21, 2016
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    I HAD to comment on his pic! They were too pathetic not to! I'm glad you keep him locked, sweetie. Surely even an average sized dildo can do even better ;-)
     
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    #9 Thatgirl, Sep 21, 2016
    Also, he replied to my comment defending himself saying he can get it up several times a day and you could get laid multiple times a day if you want to - well please don't take offense, but I don't think screwing a cocktail weenie would be very satisfying, do you?
     
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    #10 Keyholder For CSG, Sep 21, 2016
    The best part is that I didn't have to lock him up. He begged me to do it. I think he had something else in mind but I'm learning that it's more about what I want anyway.
     
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    #11 Keyholder For CSG, Sep 21, 2016
    Oh yes. I've heard that before. He tells me that he's some some sort of super stud because he he can play with himself and get hard all the time. He does have decent stamina but whatever, it doesn't hit my spot.

    Last time he tried to convince me of his superior sexual prowess he was wearing a bra, panties, thigh highs, high heels and lipstick. Can you imagine?

    He's going to want to kill me when he reads this.... Oh well, he'll have to get over it.
     
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    #12 Thatgirl, Sep 21, 2016
    Bahahha!! Sounds oh so super sexy! If I wanted someone whose wearing ladies clothes and lipstick, I'd hit on a woman;-)
     
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    #13 Droog, Sep 21, 2016
    love the thread but can't find your hubby, he has an account here?

    -droog
     
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    #14 Keyholder For CSG, Sep 21, 2016
    @CSG in a Pink 18CP
     
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    #15 Droog, Sep 21, 2016
    Thanks! I found it eventually, and managed to find the picture. You should make him "follow" you on the Mansion so his account is easier to find.

    Love your avatar picture by the way, and the exposing of his "manhood" (hahaha). That deserves to be locked up, doesn't it...

    -droog
     
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    #16 Jasmic68, Sep 21, 2016
    I think he is missing the point in his comment about being able to get it up and cum several times a day. The important thing is how many times can he get it up and make YOU cum? If he was able to make you cum several times a day then fair play, he shouldn't be locked up. But if he can't then he really might as well either be locked up or given a real toy to play with.

    He says that you knew about his size before you got married, but were you aware at the time that average is larger?
     
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    #17 Brooke the Sissy, Sep 21, 2016
    You go girls. : )
     
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    #18 Joroincharge, Sep 21, 2016
    Probably academic now anyway whether he can get hard or not - not going to get the chance to try now methinks.....:):):)
     
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    #19 Jblocked, Sep 21, 2016
    Takes time to figure out rolls and what works. Sounds like your both on your way to figuring it all out remember love and fun first
     
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    #20 Lockedwithlove, Sep 21, 2016
    I think it was @Joroincharge who posted a thread a while back asking us chaste to see if our keyholders and mistress's would join this forum. I didn't think my mistress would be interested but I asked her again id she'd like to join and to my surprise she somewhat enthusiasticly said she would like to join. just like @Keyholder For CSG I think she's kind of doing it to appease me but I really want her to come here and meet and make friends with the other keyholders and mistresses. My mistress has become a wonderful domme and blossoms more everyday.

    After reading @Keyholder For CSG wrote it makes me a little nervous and excited for my mistress to be part of the mansion. I hope my mistress makes many friends here as there our so many great people. I'm going to help her get set up tonight with her introduction in the foyer her user name is @Mistress_M. I'm sure she's looking forward to learning more from those of you that have been at this for a while and just making some new friends. I'm such a dork I'm really excited for her.
     
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    #21 jemima, Sep 21, 2016
    When She comes on here you will has watch what you says on here.
     
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    #22 xcitedsisssy, Sep 21, 2016
    @Keyholder For CSG It is good to hear that you have learned that you are not his sexual toy to be played with. Now the roles are reversed and he is now your sex toy to be used as much as you might want to or not.
    I know through my experience with my Wife/KH, it took her quite some time to be comfortable with her role as key holder. Now she nor I would want it any other way. Every couple is different and the way they live the lifestyle. It sounds like you are well on your way with hubby to make this work you both once he learns his place.
    Mistress stand tall and be in Control, I know this is what my Wife loves most is the Control. Have fun and be well.
     
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    #23 Gabriellia, Sep 21, 2016
    I would like it beter if your keyholder/wife/partners join anonymously. By that I mean they join without the other knowledge. So while the partner knows the subs ID. The sub has no idea they are even on the forum. They get to learn from the best while seeing some of the deepest thought of their other.
     
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    #24 Lockedwithlove, Sep 21, 2016
    You are very right, I don't believe I've said anything on here since I've been a member that I wouldn't want her to read or that she doesn't already know about. After seeing other couples join this forum together it was something I hoped my mistress and I could do as well.

    @Gabriellia, my mistress is aware of my blog and reads my posts and she also knows that I'm fairly active on this forum. Any time she sees me on my phone and asks what I'm looking at I'm usually here. Even though I see where you are coming from, the fact that I already know that she reads my posts negates any purpose for anonymity. Besides I'm sure she'll reference me when she gets around to her introduction.
     
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    #25 Lockedwithlove, Sep 21, 2016
    Sorry, don't mean to hijack this thread :/
     
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