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    Hi everyone!

    I'm new to the forums. Looking forward to poking around.

    I've been with my partner a little over a year and we've been playing with chastity in various ways for about 9 months. I had been peripherally interested in chastity for maybe a year or two before her and I were walking past a sex shop and she saw a cock cage in the window. She jokingly told me she was going to buy one and lock me up! I told her I'd lock her up. We laughed and the conversation moved elsewhere. I couldn't get it out of my head though. I told her a couple days later that thoughts of her locking my cock up had dominated my sexual thoughts. She agree to try it and we ordered a cage.

    My first cage was a metal cage that was a very cheap build and had sharp, unfinished edges with a small and painfully tight ring. My partner was worried my cock would fall off it was so tight! We ditched that and I did some research and decided to spring for a kink3d. It was a big improvement.

    We play with the cock cage anywhere from 1-4 days per week. She always unlocks me before bed. When we first got the cage, I attempted to wear it to sleep. I woke up multiple times with moderate discomfort. After this, my partner won't let me wear it to bed. She has a bit of block about intentionally causing me pain outside of when she goes primal on me.

    She has fun with chastity, but I can see the effort it takes her. She does it primarily for my pleasure, and I'm grateful to her for indulging me. We switch (she would never be in a belt), but generally she has control, which we both prefer. Our relationship is very equal in terms of respect. Outside the bedroom there isn't much of a power/control imbalance. I think we both defer to one another too much for it to lean in either direction. It is not a femdom relationship. I feel like it would be too hard to let go of the switch side. Neither of us want that, though sometimes I imagine what that would be like.

    I can appear to some as extremely masculine and yet wholesome figure, but I have a deviant side and a sexy red thong haha!

    Some of my other less sexual interests include psychology, reading, basketball, hiking, and psychedelics.

    I would love to learn and hear people's thoughts about psychology of various fetishes. I have been analyzing my submissive fetishes for years. It helped a lot when I was in my formative years and was confused and was still trying to fight my fetishes.

    Also would love any recommendations on erotica that you may think I would like based on what's written above.

    Thanks for reading!
     
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    Sounds like you're off to a good start.
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable.
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion.
     
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    Welcome here! You both have fun exploring :)
     
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    Welcome to the Mansion. Great way to start a relationship!
     
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    One red thong can quickly become your very own knicker drawer lol
     
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    hello @Jacob Jones and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
     
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    Well they're for men. You can tell because there's space for the nuts. That's what I tell my partner everytime she calls them panties lol
     
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    Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. DMs are open for fun and light-hearted analyses of fetishes and early experiences.
     
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    I need to grab a sexy red thong. Welcome.
     
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    New here, I never can decide what to put on these things. First belt was one of those cheap silicone birdlock ones from ebay. Had a few through the years in plastic and in steel. Last one I had was a knock off holy trainer from ebay. Wore it 2 or 3 days at a time before swelling or other tings made removal necessary. The last time I put it on I didn't realize the lock was rusted and it wouldn't let go for 4 days. Ended up with the metal stuck to the skin, that was not fun at all.
     
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    You need to put this in your own post not someone elses. Firstly because it ensure people actually read it and know who you are and secondly it is a little rude to introduce yourself on someone elses post! :)
     
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    Welcome to the mansion if you ever want a chat to a caged married guy come and chat
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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