How to stop night time erections?

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    I've been playing with chastity for 7 months and I really wanna keep my cage on for weeks without using the key once, but every so often I get a monster erection that wakes me up at night and keeps me up the rest of the night and I'm a miserable zombie the entire day after. Is there a way to prevent night time erections, or at least make them happen less often?
     
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    Just have to think about at her things And try to keep it all out of your mind and work through it. I still get hard ones during the night. I just go pee and it is all over with
     
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    I guess I need to learn to proof read. just have to think of other things and try to keep it all out of your mind and work through it. I still get hard during the night at times, most of the time I get up and go pee and all is good after words.
     
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    When I get a serious erection at night, I get so swollen in my cage that the urine flow is completely blocked and I can't pee at all until it goes away. That's a problem for me. :(
     
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    Patience and consistency in wearing at night is the advice I can offer. I think we all have gone through the same thing. I tried the peeing approach with some help. Vasilene in the typical pinch spots may help. But it was time and patience that stopped nocturnal erections. Easily a year of 24/7 in chastity went by before that stopped. From time to time i get an erection but its mostly teatical skin pitching that wakes me now.
     
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    Well, I don't have to worry about the pinching part... I found a cage that I can wear constantly without that happening. I say that's an important step.
     
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    You just have to power through it nighttime erections are part of being a man. I'm confident you grin and bear it a couple weeks the worst of it will be over.
     
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    That was my thought as well, but my last session sucked after 5 weeks, but things overall were not ideal, I will admit… I seem to be doing this time but I didn’t started locked 24/7. I’m locked for 4 days straight now but that’s mainly because I’ve been so horny lately I don’t wanna take a chance by unlocking myself.
     
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    I was in a hurry when I typed that last response… I meant to say I seem to be doing better this time.
     
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    You just have to keep on pushing through, it is hard, but your body will adapt and become accustomed to its predicament.
     
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    It really just takes time for your body to adapt
     
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    It took me about 6 months of constsnant wear to get used to it so erections didn't wake me anymore. I mean, I did sleep well even before that, but I had to constantly adjust my balls to ease the pressure.
     
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    Yes it takes time! Be patient.
     
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    Stop thinking of what your body wants. Think about what delights you are achieving , I ignore what my genitals want, you'll get there believe me !
     
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    That’s gonna take some getting used to, but I do see your point. :cool:
     
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    I have found the more I get used to wearing a cage the less frequently I think about it, in the early days you think about it constantly which doesn't help with erections/hornyness, the longer it goes on it just becomes normal, I can see a time in the future where I will only really think about it once or twice a day.
     
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    That is progress!
     
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    @PornAddict103 I dont think that cage of shame does you any favours in this regard, I dont know your size but im guessing its probably a bit on the small side, I found cages that allow a little bit of growth but not too much are the most comfortable for night time
     
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    When caged you will always know it's there, but what you will - sooner or later- is accept why you are doing it. I do it for my KH she controls my genitals now. I accept that.
     
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    My Keyholder’s Prize cage is a quarter-inch longer but it gives me problems. One problem is the ring doesn’t have perfectly round edges so it causes chafing when my balls contract. The other problem, as I mentioned many times, is partial erections, even slight ones, are very uncomfortable for me. No erection at all feels much better.

    I can’t keep my Keyholder’s Prize cage on for more than a couple days, but I can keep my Cage of Shame on for as long as I want without any chafing or discomfort. In fact, I’m in it right now for the 5th day in a row without using the key the whole time.

    I’m still in my Cage of Shame, doing overnights because my horniness is through the roof and my urges are getting more easily triggered with every passing day, so I don’t feel I can trust myself to take it off, save for hygiene, until my body calms TF down.
     
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    There are so many variables to a cage, I have some that partial erections are fine in, others they are uncomfortable, despite them being a similar size.
     
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    Well, my Cage of Shame works best of all the ones I have. But fortunately (and strangely) I haven’t had a night time erection in the several nights I kept it on… Exactly why is beyond me, but in all that time I haven’t been waking up anymore at night than I was when I unlocking for bed. So things seem to be improving for me overall. So, I’m gonna stick to it unless I have a “real” reason to unlock myself.
     
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    A good technique for getting rid of the annoying nightime boners is to tense your PC muscles, especially you anus, as strongly as for as long as you can.

    Should get rid of it within a minute or so.

    Absoluletely don't lay there trying to just wish it away. If it persists, get up and do something useful while you wait for it to pass.
     
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    But that’ll make me wide awake and I’ll be up the rest of the night for sure. That kinda defeats the whole idea. :p
     
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    Well, at least you put in a good effort trying the suggestions before deciding they don't work for you.
     
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