How to deal with constant horniness?

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    We're trying chastity for the first time while she's on her period. No device, just honor code. Currently ending day 5. She's been teasing me which I love, but I'm so horny sometimes that it actually hurts a bit. I should mention that I'm used to cumming 2-4 times a day so going to 0 is quite a change. Any advice on how to stop the urge to touch myself and keep my mind clear over the next 48 hours would be greatly appreciated.

    Also a bit worried that when I finally cum it'll hurt a bit. I really wasn't expecting it, but my balls are noticeably bigger/swollen. Will I actually enjoy it when I finally cum?
     
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    My secret to getting over my constant horniness was.... getting older. I don't know how old you are, but if you're still wanking 2-4 times a day I suspect you have a long road of frustration ahead. You have years and years of great times to look forward to. Enjoy it as much as you can for as long as it lasts!!
     
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    Well... a chastity device would help with the urge to touch yourself. Without a device to stop you touching try to stay in her presence, or the presence of others, don't be alone, don't give yourself the opportunity. Exercise can help, long run maybe.

    I wouldn't worry about it hurting when you finally cum, it'll just be the best orgasm you've had in a long time, the denial makes a big difference to intensity (in a good way). If you get backed up you'll just start leaking pre-cum, a little embarrassing, though my Goddess finds it amusing.
     
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    Any way to induce this without cumming or anal play? I think (hope) that it might help relieve some of the ache in my balls.
     
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    Do something to occupy your mind. You need intense focus on something, anything.
     
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    Doing something sensual or sexual for my wife gets me dripping. She will lay on the bed naked and have me give her a foot massage. I do a full 5 minutes on each foot. It totally relaxes her, and gets me dripping. If after she let's me lick her, I will drip so much that I will feel satisfied for hours, as if I had an orgasm.
     
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    That’s interesting, I don’t feel satisfied from leaking itself, though I do feel a level of satisfaction from her orgasms.

    afuture leaking just starts happening after a period of denial and then some mental sexual stimulation (teasing from your partner can be enough). The period of denial required varies, if you were cumming 2-4 times a day it should not take many days to start leaking. This can vary from small wet sticky spots in your underwear to soaking through your underwear and trousers (very embarrassing).
     
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    She's been physically teasing me every day and even though the slightest touch feels like I'm right on the edge of cumming, unfortunately I haven't noticed any leaking at all yet. The plan is to have sex when her period ends (any day now...) so I guess it might not happen
     
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    Just go for another week in denial after her period finishes, plenty of ways to please her while you remain chaste ;)

    My goddess lets me cum roughly once every two or three weeks, lot of leaking in the second and third weeks. She just stared her period so I can sort of relate.
     
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    I do think it would be easier to deal with things if i could eat her out but I think she's ready for this to end. She loves how horny this makes me for her, but she's not into the power play dynamic and I think at this point just wants me to feel some relief
     
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    When you do get to cum it won’t hurt and you will enjoy it! If your used to cumming 2-4 times a day it’s going to blow your mind!
     
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    I'm thinking of asking for a ruined orgasm today in exchange for an extra 24 hours. The idea is to give my balls some relief. Any thoughts on this?
     
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    if you've been cumming 2-4 times a day then go a week + without ejaculation... you better have some towels handy for the cleanup. your gonna be spurting for a good 30 seconds or more.

    I just managed to milk about 4 weeks worth of saved up load with a prostate massager, quite the messy situation. LOL
     
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    Wish I'd had this advice yesterday lol

    She ended up giving me a blowjob to completion and for the first time ever she couldn't handle how much I was cumming and couldn't swallow if fast enough. It was spilling out of her mouth lol at least she found it funny
     
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    LOL

    When I've been denied Goddess sooo does not let me cum in her mouth, in the past she has complained that I'm trying to drown her ;)
     
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