How long till you start to notice your getting desperate?

I've chosen 14-30 days

Days from O to 7 things are fairly settled, can get a bit horny but find that affection towards my wife is more of a conscious act rather than one of need/desperation.

Days 7-14 is when hornyness starts to ramp up depending on whats happening at the time. I will sometimes start to leak seminal fluid after bathrooming during this time, not all the time but it starts

Das 14+ and I find myself actively trying to get attention (go in for a kiss, try and grind my cage against her or from behind, reach around and grab boobs, grinding cage into bum). This is also when leaking is more prolific and can be a daily occurence and there are more chances of spots in my underwear.

I'm just hitting 30 days now for the first time (previous was 21 days) and I'm starting to hope that there will be some relief soon....

 

If you can take 80 Days there is no reason to take it of anymore, is there? She can remove the cage if she wants sex, otherwise: chastised....

 

I have always been permitted anal stimulation by my madam, so when I was getting pent up and frustrated I broke out the toys, and had some relief.

 

I find it varies but can be up to a week and as little as a few days.

When I'm unable to wear it due to work, I find I crave it more and rush to get back into chastity.

I also find the longer I'm locked up the more I'm browsing reddit and other sites looking for ideas and other materials.

 

I no longer lose my submissive state after an orgasm.

I think she broke me.

 

Or fixed you depending on your perspective.

 

You know, I wrote this two years ago:

It's still fairly accurate - at 5 days I start getting really horny again, then it subsides for a few days, etc.

*But* two things are different. First, as I wrote this I didn't know it at the time, but my wife was pushing me into my longest lock-up (3 months), doubling my previous record. I was very much bouncing off the walls in those last couple weeks. I think she decided to release me to stop putting up with the behavior more than anything else

Second, recently I've found that if my wife lets me cum then locks me immediately back up, my horniness level hasn't faded that much, especially if the cum happens at the end of a longer play session. It's like that refractionary period after 1 orgasm is now minimal. Though, I am able to get two or more orgasms I am back to a baseline level and have to crawl upwards again.

I *think* she's glomming on to this (I sure as hell haven't mentioned it to her...) which has led to more immediate re-locks than before. She used to let me have 12-24 hours out of the cage to clean/reset/breathe a litlte in between about half the time. That hasn't been happening the last several lockup periods...

 

Truth to tell I think it strange that most people say they change after an orgasm for several days. Directly after an orgasm due ti hormone levels ? Ok, I will grant that.The differece alone between an whipping and a whipping where you have been made to orgasm before speaks for itself.
But for changes still in place after an orgasm ? Not for me. Especially as I do not think "horniness" as somewhat closely related to an orgasm. "Horniness" should be rather affected by you state of mind and things you experience rather than an orgasm low days ago.